Hi everybody, I just recently started with anal play with a girl. I've read a lot about "there's no such thing as too much lube", so I'd like to ask for some guidance as to how to properly use lube For now, we're working with one finger. The goal is to move to a buttplug and then to me penetrating her. Last time I tried, after few minutes she said it got sort of irritated and I immediately pulled out the finger. I wonder if this happened due to not having enough lube. I'm using a silicone based lube... but I don't know if I should take out the finger, apply more lube and reinsert? Reinsertion is supposed to be the bad part of anal experience, but if I don't do this, then how am I going to lube the innermost part? I appreciate your help on this Thanks a lot!
Reinsertion is the fun part for me! Think the trick might be to try a different lube and maybe keep it as plain as possible, if you aren't already. I find my skin kind of gets irritated if I use some of the flavoured or tingling lubes.
Coconut oil. It's excellent as a lube, use the raw coconut oil. Also when you finger her ass, don't just sit there, gently move your finger, small circles and in and out. At the same time, stimulate her pussy and/or tits/nipples. COCONUT OIL CANNOT BE USED With CONDOMS!! It breaks down the latex.
As posted above, coconut oil. I take it and at room temperature, roll it into balls about the size of a nickel. Do about a dozen of them and pop them in the freezer. They'll get very hard and easier to handle and work with. When you and your lady friend get to messing around, just have the coconut oil balls handy. You can easily slip them up her bottom and as they melt everything will get nice and lubed up. And with reserves standing by, you've always got adequate lube. Ditch the condoms and stick that bare cock right up her ass. You'll both thank me for that piece of advise. Great thing about coconut oil is, it's naturally anti-microbial. Less chance of you coming away with a urinary tract infection from sticking your cock in the poop hole.
Try olive oil - its ideal for anal play & its available in several container sizes. Have a look next time your at a supermarket. It comes in pure, light & virgin varieties.
