Hey y'all, my name is Bird. I've been in this store before but forgot my login stuff. Coming back to just talk to people and heal from recent events in my life. How are y'all doing? Hit me up!
Hi, honey, welcome, what was happened to you? There is always a way to get out of any problems, so don't be worried, if you like give me a PM
I was being physically abused the past 6 months. I went to work a couple nights ago and they convinced me to call the cops on him, cuz he lives in my house. I feel really guilty for getting him in trouble and I miss him, I really loved him. But I know that he doesn't love me or else he wouldn't hit me. But he only did it when he was drunk so I keep telling myself maybe he's a good person if he just quit drinking. But I know that's just wishful thinking. I'm just really sad and I want to talk to him but I know that would be a bad idea. I'm just so confused and hurt and I feel guilty. But I want peace and to love myself. Idk
Do not allow yourself to be hit or disrespected any more. He WILL NOT CHANGE HIS BEHAVIOR. You deserve love and respect and there are many, many around who will give you that. Please determine that that is the case and you will be free of mistreatment. Take care of yourself and welcome to the forums.
Hello and welcome. Sorry to hear about your troubles but remember things do get better if you take the first step and you have.
He may if he gave up the drink, but I would not be betting any money on it. To some people, alcohol is a behavioral changing poison. The problem is that the slightest thing will often make them revert back to their comfort zone. This can be as simple as a minor argument at work. People like him, will always be a ticking time bomb and they are not always male.
Yeah I do know that women abuse men too. And I'm not perfect. I have a drinking problem as well and would argue with him and get insecure about other women. So I always rationalized his hitting me as, "I deserve it because I'm such a bitch". We were definitely both toxic for each other. But I just felt he was gonna wake up one day with me dead next to him and not remember how it happened. I just want the best for him but I need to stay away. Especially now. It just hurts so bad cuz when it was good it was great. But there was more stress than happiness and I just want to feel happy. If any of that makes sense.
He's more like a crocodile than a bird, but very angry. He has a lot of trauma and I hope he can one day heal from it and be happy with someone and treat them right.
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Welcome and glad to hear of your changes in life. It’s going to be hard for awhile but you will get there. Love thyself and the rest will fall into place.
