Sex is a natural part of our adult lives, but still people have different values about monogamy, style, position, location & timing etc. I was wondering, since some ladies have reservations about anal, and some even have reservations about giving/receiving oral sex; some females also expect marriage if sex is on the table, while others embrace the single life (which is practically polyamory is some people's books). My question is if vaginal intercourse is any more stressful to ladies than other kinds of sex? Does it take the same toll as anal; do girls expect their partners to be more or less committed to allow forward entry? I am asking because I am not really into anal, and I have had 2 girlfriends that may have had issues as a result of vaginal play (one was a bladder infection, and the other one had a couple missed/ late periods). I try to think I am pretty gentle, but at the same time I always try to please my woman and stimulate their G-spot. Is this healthy or not over the long term?
Have you ever noticed that in this day and age sex toys just don't really resemble a dick anymore? I mean yeah they do, in way, and some are simulated to look and feel like the real thing, but the girls in the videos having intense orgasm tend to use the more funky looking toys. Toys with bends and kinks, toys with studs, points or thorns. Toys with swirls, toys that move unrealistically. These toys stimulate what's meant to be the G spot, if you believe in it. So, although it's cute you're trying, just going to town on your girls but keeping an open mind like, oh this will be good for her G spot, you know in all honesty you're probably not hitting the right spots with what you've got. That's why sex toys in 2017 come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and functions. I often read guys comments like "oh I like to please a woman before myself" but in my experience, females are more in control of themselves than their partners are of them. A guy may have point of no return when he reaches a certain stimulation but lots of females can balance that point and trigger it when necessary or when they desire. Also, I read a lot of simultaneous orgasms. Now I don't believe this is by chance, or coincidence, I believe that's the female controlling her own orgasm. The dude finishes, she triggers herself. Now I've never done any research on the topic and everything I say and feel is just my personal experiences. But that's a lesbians take on it for you.
