Have you found your Soulmate?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by wolfdreamer69, Nov 19, 2012.

  1. Ivory62

    Ivory62 Senior Member

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    No, I have not. Call me an aged bitter cynic, but I do not believe I ever will. For me, at least, the concept is an entirely alien one.

    Every woman I have ever known, without exception, has tried to change fundamental aspects of who I am. Sure, I have flaws, but FFS nobody is perfect. I don't want to change anyone, and surely a soulmate shouldn't want to change me.

    I'm not talking minor shit either, like haircuts or clothes. I mean big time stuff such as political allegiances and relationships with children (which are a no-go zone in my case, my daughter is and will remain the most important person in my life). But women - every damn one- wants to interfere in everything from where I live to how I cook to who I vote for, who my friends are and what I do in my leisure time.

    Soulmate? Don't make me laugh.

    Yes I am still fucking bitter.
     
  2. zombiewolf

    zombiewolf Senior Member

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    Me too...:love:
     
  3. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    Those situations totally blow, and I don't think your cynical, your just being realistic.

    The whole concept about soul mates, imho, is beautiful BS. The narrative of it sounds all nice and peachy but it's a bunch of rotten lies and is extremely dangerous to the mental health of society's view of what romance is, was, should be.
     
  4. JKHolman

    JKHolman Member

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    Pure invention.
     
  5. RainyDayHype

    RainyDayHype flower power Lifetime Supporter

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    soul mates? Yes

    twin flame? I think I'm getting there..
     
  6. Meliai

    Meliai Members

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    I've met my soulmate in many different people. I've never really been the type of person that can be made to feel complete just because of my significant other- i actually think its really unhealthy to feel this way. But I consider my close friends and my partner all to be my soul mates. Our souls see something in each other and find comfort in it.
     
  7. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    How you cook, should be a reasonable change request, depending on the specifics they're asking to change in meals and stuff.

    But the other things such as requiring political and social relationship changes with your kids, is a VERY VERY understandable no-go zone. I think you've just had tons of bad luck.
     
  8. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    I'd really like to think so however, and Sadly - Despite Many years of Searching:-

    THE CHIMES -I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For", - YouTube

    Still, I continue to Hope :)
     
  9. Hedgeclipper

    Hedgeclipper Qiluprneeels Nixw

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    I did but I didn't realize it and I broke up with her. Then I figured it out later and kicked myself for it.
     
  10. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    awww man, you still haven't tried to get back together with her? I thought you said you you saw her a few times and there was some vibe there
     
  11. deleted

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    yes, shes bit of a nut.. but Im a squirrel, so we're made for each other..
     
  12. EventHorizon

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    She makes me happy inside of my heart.
     
  13. Hedgeclipper

    Hedgeclipper Qiluprneeels Nixw

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    i haave but i dont think she's into it. I'm mostly just busy and she's currently in the hospital actually (nothing bad)... maybe ill meet up with her at some point

    I'm currently in different complicated relationship things i guess idk
     
  14. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    I don't believe there is only one soul mate for you. I think you can feel that way about many people including friends. That being said I have found the person I choose to spend the rest of my life with.
     
  15. Bilby

    Bilby Lifetime Supporter and Freerangertarian Super Moderator

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    Nope.
     
  16. Hedgeclipper

    Hedgeclipper Qiluprneeels Nixw

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    I ike to think the same thing
     
  17. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    I completely agree with this sentiment. I don't believe a soulmate is necessarily a romantic partner or one specific person.
     
  18. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

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    no i wish i had
     
  19. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    I refer to my best friends as my hetero soul mates.
     
  20. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    I don't believe in soul, nor soulmate.

    I have found a person I love and who loves me. We're just ordinary people, full of imperfections and contradictions. I'm not perfect, nor is he. We're very different, but we respect our ways and differences.

    The beautiful thing in this man is that he's a calm person, never raises his voice. We live in peace and that is priceless to me. We trust in each other and can talk about everything.

    We've been together for almost 20 years.
     

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