.....made a commitment because he or she had a 10 body and fucked like a pro but down the road it turned to shit in one form or another? There is an old saying. "Don't drink poison just because you are thirsty." Your story?
Oh shit yes, in ways regrettably yes. In ways no. She was my first pussy, killer body, totally insatiable, and open to lots of exploration. Had me wrapped for a long while. So much so I thought the relationship would last forever. It didn't. After a little more than a year and a trip to a Nevada brothel I began to realize she was using me as a fuck toy. Myself and 2 others that I found out about through the grapevine. I can't say she was bad for me as I learned so much from her and to this day cherish the time we had together. But after experiencing a real pro in Nevada I began to wonder. The parallel between the two sexually was remarkable. Both fucked nearly alike except I knew the prostitute had no feelings for me. Doubt set in and I began to ask and discuss relationships with friends of ours. Revelations came forth and the relationship slowly broke down. I began to explore other relationships on my own without them becoming sexual. Met my future spouse and the compatibility between us led to sex which was great. With her the sex was based on love. Real love which was something I hadn't experienced in my young life yet. For a short while I had sex with both until I discovered her promiscuity and that she was fucking two, maybe three others, besides myself regularly and had been doing so all along. I wanted commitment at that time of my life and ended the relationship with one last fuck. Walked out after I unloaded in her pussy and never saw her again. It was not a noble move on my part and if I could relive the situation with the maturity I have now I would take a different approach. But the experience caused me to mature and put me into a monogamous, yet sexually torrid, relationship for over 40 years. How about you? Since you brought it up tell your story.
Yes, I had lots of good looking gf’s since jr high. I met a girl at 21 that was different I would say. We became somewhat serious but she would kind of disappear for a couple of weeks at a time. She wasn’t necessarily gone but didn’t return my call. No cell phones then. Then I suspected she was with someone else, she always blamed school and exams as to why she was vacant. Then I found out she was fucking another guy. I just let it go and waited till she called and we would pickup where we left off for several months. Then the same thing would happen. This was over the course of about 18 months. Then I became really attracted, she told me she loved me. Then a couple of months later she was graduating nursing school. As soon as she did she dumped me.
No Barry I can’t say that actually happened top me. Maybe the closest was when I was 15. But there was really no commitment. We just screwed each other three times a week. Ever since I was a teen ager I had this ingrained feeling that I did not want to have one exclusive girl friend or a wife. Whenever I hooked up it was all about the sex and hanging out with a friend. I must say I never fell into the love trap that leads to commitment. If one blew away there was always several to take her place. Actually even today I am in a relationship now for 23 years and neither one of us can say we FELL in love. We are super close friends that clicked on a mental connection and that for us was more important than sex. Out conversations keep us together and still do. I must say the sex is so so but even during Covid lock down we are closer together. My friend asked me when was the exact moment I fell in love with her. I said, “if I allowed myself to FALL in love we I would lose what I have. I did make a commitment and asked her to marry me because she was my friend but if it ever turns to shit, so be it. Maybe I went too far in my explanation but oh well.
Was in my later 20s and much like yourself never cared for or allowed myself to fall into the love trap. Anyway, met this chick through a family friend, sweet and innocent seeming with a great body. We had a lot in common and seemed to hit it off, in particular she was getting into a hobby i had a lot of experience in, we started hanging out and before long i was head over heels for her, it was about a month before she finally gave it up, hind sight being 20/20 we'd been drinking and she was pissed off at a male "friend" and clearly just needed a new dick to ride. We hung out a lot to the point people thought we were a couple, although we were not fucking much. This shit went on for almost 8 months then she became distant suddenly, after about a week i called her on it and asked about "us" to which she claimed there never was an "us" and if i thought there was it was on me cause she never did anything to imply there was an "us" and i quote "You've always been just a friend, sure we hooked up but i was never really interested in you, you were just a good fuck, but maybe we should take a break" I was crushed but again hindsight being 20/20 looking back over those past months i was an idiot and missed a lot of red flags but missed them cause the pussy was damn good and she played me cause she needed something from me, once she got what she needed she moved on and tried to play innocent and place the blame on me. Poisonous is exactly what she was, found out through several mutual friends that she had a track record of using her pussy to rope men in for her benefit then kicking them to the curb when she was done and playing the victim basically. Given her track record i got off easy, rumour was with one so called friend she needed a place to stay so she started fucking him, living in his place rent free "until she could get back on her feet" and same old shit people thought they were a couple until he came home early one day and found her fucking some other guy, reality was rent was just really expensive in that area so she would fuck him once or twice a week and have a nice place to live downtown. Haven't talked to her since, lesson learned and good riddance. Oddly enough i did run into her briefly a couple months ago and was pleased to see 30 hit her hard right in the face
I forgot about her finding out from a mutual friend a few years later that I was engaged. She gave him her phone number to give to me. Of course I never called. She went back to the store he worked in and blessed him out saying he never gave me the number. What a rotten egotistical bitch she was. I found out years later from someone else that she had been divorced 4 times and lives alone with a bunch of cats. I think she was mentally ill.
