yeah sometimes as you probably know, males that don't encompass those things get given a hard time, still you could always enjoy peeing standing up! S
'cept he actually killed the deer and did the pic as a joke. seems disrespectful to me. i just take them home and eat them with as much dignity as i can manage. you already killed it, don't go making joke photos with it's carcass.
odds are good... but still, it was a teasing thing, but i guess the irony is lost without my free cat picture in my signature, since it was hypocracy-style humor over a dead cat...
well I'm more grateful than you'll ever know about you moving that pic, so back on topic, any more insights about the oppersite sex? S
not at the moment. i suppose having the instinct to watch and enjoy football would be helpful, but i wasn't taught sports of any sort by my parents. they wanted me in pink, playing with dolls and reading quietly in my floral bedroom. i looked terrible in pink, preferred red, dismembered and buried my dolls (they were barbies, pointy hands, gave me nightmares) and climbed trees to read instead.
No i dont wish to be the opposite sex because, I have grown up with the fact my dad was dissapointed I was a girl, so for years I have tryed to please him by doing stuff guys do with their dads like fishing and fixing cars and stuff... at one point I dressed like a guy and began using weights.. but then desided, that it wasnt right, doing all of this to impress him, when I should be happy in who I am.
I am looking forward to the development of cyborgs to the point where physical gender can eb changed on a whim
gender is a social illusion, and i'll be damned if it'll stop me being who i want or wearign what i want or whatever. being a girl would be cool but it would give me almost as many limits as being a guy. It's not what body you got, it's what you do with it!
I would suggest that you are comfortable with your body, as a lot of transexuals and transgendered people would disagree with what you have just said. I see it as a sweeping statement that can't be applied to everyone S
Yes I've deeply thought about every, gender and sex I've heard of. I've wondered about being a neuter, I've wondered about being both male and female, I've wondered about becoming the opposite sex I was born, as well as thinking about being born the opposite sex I was born, and getting a sex change. I've pretty much thought deeply, about what it must feel like for all genders and sexes. Being a cisgendered feminine woman, masculine man, being an androgynous female, or an androgynous male, being a masculine female, or a feminine male, being intersexed, being a feminine, or androgynous, or masculine intersex, being a transexual, and just about everything inbetween. I don't think there is any gender or sex, I never thought of what it was like to be, if I had a choice... Like say I changed gender and sex everyday, and would've lived as virtually ever gender within a few months, I would likely take it perhaps. And would I be the opposite sex for just a day? Yes. For life? If I could magically press a button, swiftly change my sex while still retaining androgynous traits, and it was painless and I lived in a much more accepting society yes. But considering all the time it takes, transition being painfull and such, it seems like merely a part-time wish, which while for some people it may be worth it, just isn't worth it in my case I feel. I sometimes feel sad about being the sex I am, but I just don't feel strongly enough (or bold enough) to change sexes. Ever since I came out as androgynous, I've gradually felt less and less like my heads going to explode.
maybe your gender needs to be a bit of everything one day, everything of one another day and no gender at all some days, i'm sure I could find something on this if I looked hard enough, watch this space. I also think society wants us tied down to being one sex, so well done for bucking in the face of tradition! S
Thats probably it really. Having a whole lot of things at once, and society trying to force you to strictly, and only make one permanent choice. Never saw a logical reason why some took it so seriously... I think a lot of overtly stereotypical, hypermasculine, and hyperfeminine, (A person who never lets themselves cry, could be the first, and I guess someone tries to force themselves not to get sexual urges in the name of "Truly being feminine, both which may lead to intense frustration), would be too examples of this. I am not talking about girly girls, girly guys, masculine guys, or Butch woman... Neither highly masculine guys, or women, or highly feminine men or women... I am only speaking of things at stereotypical 'Purest' extremes. I'll do almost anything, which doesn't permanently, or have long term effects my gender flexibility really. Becoming more muscular, or such would be too long term. I tend not to like permanent or long lasting chances I think. I generally tend to have my hair combed or brushed in various ways, depending on how I feel at any given time. As well as sometimes keeping my face completely devoid of facial hair, but when I am feeling rough I'll temporarily grow some. All I really seek is being highly flexible. One of the reasons why I love my combat boots... They aren't permanent, and I can swiftly put them on or remove them, with no long term effects. I've felt both pressures really, the pressure to "Either be Gi Joe or Barbie". Quite ironic, how someone who can never be accepted by such tradition, and acknowledges such, can still be manipulated in a sense. Either way I am not a masculine man nor a feminine woman... And due to these I am not compatible with tradition, yet ironically in the past, parts of me have gotten controlled by it. I don't think it gets any more traditional than those two types of Dolls. I've known I can never be 'normal', so why bother forcing myself to adhere to such ideals? Many will not accept a feminine male, or one with homosexual desires, but then something illogical in my head tells me "Become Barbie and they'll accept me!", but thats just me subconsciously conforming to "Gi Joe or Barbie, there is no inbetween" type views.
maybe you need to find a way of just being yourself, as you get older that may include living in an area where you can just be yourself as well S
I view myself as both feminen and masculine in my personality so I guess until they make a magic gender changing machine that can switch you back and forth, I think I'll stick with what I already got. But yeah I wouldn't mind being a guy for a while. =)
