Have you ever

fantasized about your exes? how long after you guys broke up?


I did for the first time tonight... but we've been apart for over two years now, he was my first real bf

 

Sure have.. I don't want any of them back but sometimes I do masturbate thinking of them with someone else.. Which I did that while we were together :&

 

Oh, yea, I sure have. The sex with my ex-wife was so damn good that I'd have to be put under general anesthesia not to think about it. She was incredibly sexy and the sex we had just friggin' perfect. Can't help but think/fantasize about that sometimes.

 

exes give you a fantasy library to look back on, so sure I have..though there are also none I crave to go back to....maybe a conjugal vist, but thats about it

 

I dream about one ex in particular all the damn time...she let me do literally anything to her, it was SO ANIMALISTIC...

She would come over to my place, walk in the door, close and lock it, turn off the TV, and tell me she was my toy, she would undress, and I would do whatever I wanted to her... two of my favorites:
1) stuff her vag with her largest dildo and then I would fuck her ass as hard as I could

or

2) lay her on the bed (on her back) with her head hanging off the bed, and she would take a deep breath, give me a nod, and let me fuck her throat, OMG it was hot seeing her neck bulge out a little, whe she needed a breath, she would tap me on the leg, I would let her cough until she had her breath again, she would nod again and lay her head back down, and we would do this until I would hold her head and push it ALL the way in right as I came... It was fucking hot to feel me cummung in her throat, and I could feel her try and swallow me while I was in there.... FUCK THAT WAS HOT...

GOD damn I need to go home to fix this now...

 

yup.

 

some things are just too good to forget, i guess! I can def. relate to this sort of thing...

 

SWEET jesus.
that throat one really had my eyes popping out my head.

 

I still occasionally sleep with all but 2 of my exes, so uum I don’t need to often, but when the occasion when there’s either no one or nothing to hand yes.

 

I most certainly have. The girl I dated the longest, I fantasized about on occasion until about three years following our break up. It wasn't until I fell deeply in love again that it went away.

That's fairly common with me though. Even after a bad break up, I unintentionally still tend to fantasize about the most recent ex, simply because I'm thinking about sex and that's the freshest image in mind about what it is like. That usually changes when I experience someone new, but not always. I pretty much need to fall in love again to put sexual thoughts of an ex to rest.

 

Yep, all the time. Probably more than is healthy really.

 

Me too DHS, only lately have I been better able to separate sex from emotion.

 

sometimes I wish I was wired that way.



sometimes

 

i work with a guy i used to date, and after spending most of my day with him i do sometimes dream about him giving me head, good dream.

 

I still fantasize about exes from 10 years ago. Just a few nuances she did that nobody else has since....

 

never forgot about my exes in my sexual fantasy.

 

Yea, me too. Can't forget sex that was that good....

 

I have exe's in the ole wank tank

 

All of mine are in there too.....

 

Wow, am I the only person who doesn't fantasise about his exes?

It just wouldn't feel right to me to fantasise about someone I'm no longer going out with. It would feel kinda creepy.