... but it just wasn't the right time? Have you ever wanted to tell someone that, but you knew that you had to wait?
right now, i like someone more than i have liked someone in a very long time. and i so want to tell them.
This is so true. Too soon, it may ruin things. Too late, it may ruin things too. There is a certain madness that governs love
If its a friend, someone close! be ware, if they dont feel the same, your relationship might change...
I don't know. The word love gets thrown around so often I believe it's almost lost all meaning. When I was scripting a bracelet for my partner and figuring out the inscription I didn't want to use the word love. It was a boring four letter word which wouldn't have looked impressive in runes. I opted for the word Adoration. "With heart felt adoration". That's my word I use for us, we adore one another.
I feel like "adore" puts too much pressure on the couple to do just that. While you can say you love somebody and it's generally accepted that you can treat each other like dirt.
We are a adoring couple though and heaps cute. ^.^ so it works for us. Most couples I know aren't adoring at all. Always bickering on the phone, always looking for an excuse to get away from one another. You know, I don't get others relationships. But not us though. I feel a Twinge of fear when I'm not with my girl. Panic even. That's not love to me, you can love someone far away, but you got to adore them to be with them 24/7
Definitely could change but possibly for the better. I once inadvertently said something to one of my best friends that ultimately forced my hand on telling her that I had a crush her for about 7 years. She hadn't felt the same way. It was awkward for a little bit but she ended up marrying me.
i think co-dependence is the word you're looking for. possibly the only time this has actually worked out in the real world.
Perhaps but I didn't give myself many options. The short story.....I offered to let her become my roommate....not thinking she actually would. She thought about it and took me up on it. I never planned on telling her how I felt about her but now I felt like I had to tell her before she moved in. I told her. She said she didn't feel the same and told me there was about a 2% chance of her changing her mind (because she didn't want to say 0%). The inside of her wedding band is engraved...."2% chance".
yeah i'm not saying it should necessarily be kept a secret or anything like that. a lot of times it's better to just get it out there so both parties can move on. i'm just saying that usually the end result is just that, moving on, rather than actually getting together.
That's probably true and, like I said, I never planned to tell her. She was out of my league IMO and I loved our friendship. I didn't want to gamble that at all. But....at the same time....there is something to be said for integrity and sometimes the good guy wins.