Have You Ever Wanted To Tell Someone How Much You Loved Them

Discussion in 'True Love' started by ezm8, Dec 22, 2015.

  1. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    ... but it just wasn't the right time?

    Have you ever wanted to tell someone that, but you knew that you had to wait?
     
  2. TipsyGypsy

    TipsyGypsy Light of a Fading Star

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    I don't believe there is ever a wrong time.
     
  3. Meliai

    Meliai Members

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    Timing is everything.

    Awe newbie loves someone!
     
  4. TipsyGypsy

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    right now, i like someone more than i have liked someone in a very long time. and i so want to tell them.
     
  5. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    This is so true. Too soon, it may ruin things. Too late, it may ruin things too.

    There is a certain madness that governs love
     
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  6. morrow

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    If its a friend, someone close! be ware, if they dont feel the same, your relationship might change...
     
  7. Tyrsonswood

    Tyrsonswood Senior Moment Lifetime Supporter

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    I think I would have to find someone first... Right?


    Otherwise=creepers
     
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  8. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    Well, yes, I suppose you're right.

    May you find the love you seek soon
     
  9. TipsyGypsy

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    do you really love her?
     
  10. mallyboppa

    mallyboppa Senior Member

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Drw_LGvl1n0&feature=youtu.be
     
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  11. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    I don't know. The word love gets thrown around so often I believe it's almost lost all meaning.
    When I was scripting a bracelet for my partner and figuring out the inscription I didn't want to use the word love. It was a boring four letter word which wouldn't have looked impressive in runes. I opted for the word Adoration. "With heart felt adoration". That's my word I use for us, we adore one another.
     
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  12. I feel like "adore" puts too much pressure on the couple to do just that. While you can say you love somebody and it's generally accepted that you can treat each other like dirt.
     
  13. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    We are a adoring couple though and heaps cute. ^.^ so it works for us.
    Most couples I know aren't adoring at all. Always bickering on the phone, always looking for an excuse to get away from one another. You know, I don't get others relationships. But not us though. I feel a
    Twinge of fear when I'm not with my girl. Panic even. That's not love to me, you can love someone far away, but you got to adore them to be with them 24/7 :)
     
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  14. Wizardofodd

    Wizardofodd Senior Member

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    Definitely could change but possibly for the better. I once inadvertently said something to one of my best friends that ultimately forced my hand on telling her that I had a crush her for about 7 years. She hadn't felt the same way. It was awkward for a little bit but she ended up marrying me.
     
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  15. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i think co-dependence is the word you're looking for.

    possibly the only time this has actually worked out in the real world.
     
  16. Wizardofodd

    Wizardofodd Senior Member

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    Perhaps but I didn't give myself many options. The short story.....I offered to let her become my roommate....not thinking she actually would. She thought about it and took me up on it. I never planned on telling her how I felt about her but now I felt like I had to tell her before she moved in. I told her. She said she didn't feel the same and told me there was about a 2% chance of her changing her mind (because she didn't want to say 0%). The inside of her wedding band is engraved...."2% chance".
     
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  17. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    yeah i'm not saying it should necessarily be kept a secret or anything like that. a lot of times it's better to just get it out there so both parties can move on. i'm just saying that usually the end result is just that, moving on, rather than actually getting together.
     
  18. Wizardofodd

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    That's probably true and, like I said, I never planned to tell her. She was out of my league IMO and I loved our friendship. I didn't want to gamble that at all. But....at the same time....there is something to be said for integrity and sometimes the good guy wins. :)
     
  19. Blu3sLady

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    Yay Newbie! Awww

    If it doesn't work out.. don't tell me until after xmas, please.
     
  20. Aerianne

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    "They" say that you should never hesitate to say it because we aren't promised tomorrow.
     
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