Have You Ever Been With Someone You're Not Attracted To?

And by not attracted to...I mean that for women and for men...not interested in? Other than just that one night... I know for men this is more likely but what I want to know is when you're deciding to "be" with this person anyway...what is your thought process?

 

depends on how "with" you mean, but generally living on planet earth makes that pretty much unavoidable.

most of my life, most of the people i've ended up being with, had very little to do with my 'deciding' anything.

which i'm pretty sure is the "why".

i don't dislike the people i'm with now.

its more the realization and forced acceptance that my perspective and values just aren't all that common, or at least not anyplace i've had the fortune to live.

 

Yes.

We are still good friends to this day. She was a roommate for only 3 months. I wouldn't have slept with her it if i was not fucked up on various drugs she offered. Acid, mushrooms, molly, and weed for a few weeks did me in. Not to mention she knew what she wanted and i fell for it. Later things got crazy and i dragged her out of the house by her arms, the house got torn apart from her thowing shit and later other things happened i can speak of.

We are great friends now though lol. I am glad she is with someone so she stays away from me in that regard.

 

My thought process is that this is interesting and it's making me think. Have I ever been with someone I'm not attracted to? I don't think so. Flexin' a brain muscle for this one, really making me think.

 

Me: Does she ever shut up

her: blaa blaa blaa blaa blaa blaaaa bla blaaaa

me Thinking: (I bet her boobs are amazing)

her: Blaa blaa blaa blaaa blaaa

Me thinking: (her body is rockin)

her: blaa blaa blaa blaaaa blaa

me thinking: I know what will shut her up

 

Nope...

 

I have to be attracted to someone to be in a relationship with them. At least a physical one anyway. I really cannot bring myself to have sex with someone I am not attracted to, which is different from a lot of men who will fuck anything that moves. But I can be great friends with women I am not physically attracted to, I just could never be in a relationship with them, or anything more than friends.

 

I've had several “I can’t believe I fucked that bitch” moments in my life if that’s what you mean?


Hotwater

 

I've thought about it. My answer is yes.

 

maybe for a couple days once, out of desperation. we weren't really together, but we flirted pretty hard for a couple days before we actually tried to do anything. but then, when the time came, i just couldn't bring myself to do it.

 

i doubt very much anything has ever been born i would not be both attracted and repulsed by. each in their own unique combination of ways.

 

I did almost. But then I thought this would not end well in any way (at least not for the other party) so I cut off the relationship before it properly started. I was physically attracted to her though... and had blue balls

If the feeling was more mutual (both attracted to each other in the same way) we could have hit it off.

 

Women are more likely to sleep with ones they are not attracted to, then men are, especially if money is involved

 

Pfft.

I think you would be attracted about something, even if it is just slightly and only at that moment in time, for whatever reason (beer glasses), to be with someone.

 

You are attracted to people who have nice beer glasses? I've got a small but intriguing collection :afro:

 

Hahaha, I didn't mean it quite like that but, that is one of the better collections you could possibly have

 

leaving aside the finer details of the op, i would have to say 9 times out of ten.

 

I went to college parties where that sort of thing was commonly done.

 

I have not. As much as I enjoy sex, I just can't do it with someone that I don't love. I guess I'm one of those old school people who won't sleep with someone without forming a relationship first, and if you can't respect that of me and want to start fucking around right away, you gots to go. I'm not trying to get married or anything, I just want that bond lol

 

Yes. After logging onto hipforums and pursuing the ads for 20% of sex dolls...

I gotta say the magic's gone guys.