Have You Been To A Concert Alone?

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  1. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    I've never been to a concert by myself. I want to go to a concert or two around my birthday, because an old friend of mine is headlining a pretty big tour, I want to support her.

    I don't think I know anyone who would want to go, unless I start contacting people I haven't talked to in a really long time. I'm also wondering if I should try to contact her and let her know I'll be there, I haven't talked to her in a couple years I'm thinking.

    I'm also thinking of trying to go to two or three of the concerts near me. What would you do? I could maybe get one person to go with me, but I think I'd have to buy tickets for both of us. Not sure I wanna do that with all the expenses I'm going to have for the next few months.
     
  2. themnax

    themnax Senior Member

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    yes, i prefer to enjoy things alone, so that i can enjoy the thing itself, instead of social distractions. i don't mean this as a rejection of companionship, i can enjoy that too. but if i'm going to something, i'm going there to experience that thing, not who i might happen to be with.

    i love affection. i love to be loved. but i soon loose patience when it holds me back from creating or exploring.
     
  3. Wizardofodd

    Wizardofodd Senior Member

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    I've never gone to an individual large concert by myself but I've been to plenty of music festivals and there have been lots of times that I wanted to see a specific band and my friends wanted to hit a different stage for a different band. No biggie. I'll just go see who I want and meet up with everyone later.
     
  4. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    Yeah festivals are easier. I think I just need to find someone who's already planning to go near me. I think there is just one opening act and then the headliner.
     
  5. morrow

    morrow Visitor

    I was meeting a friend at a concert, and didnt turn up..i had an amazing time, made lots of friends
    too...do it, just go... Dont miss thee chance, people aree a lot friendlier than you think at these places.. ;)
     
  6. Desos

    Desos Senior Member

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    i like going to concerts alone sometimes. mainly because i like to see alot more live music than most of my friends, or atleast more than they can afford. broke ass motherfuckers!

    i've met really cool people at concerts i went to by myself. they way i see it, if your friends don't come with you then just make new ones at the show.

    follow your friends or follow the music.
     
  7. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    I would say just go. If there's someone that you really want to bring along, that's fine, but you don't have to.
     
  8. guerillabedlam

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    I have gone to concerts alone, It is a different experience then going with others but usually I enjoy it. I play and make music and so when i go to a concert alone, I feel I can process the music better and come out with some ideas for my own music easier. However, being alone at a bad concert can be kind of uncomfortable and although you don't have to wait on anyone else to leave, it tends to feel like more of a wasted time.
     
  9. *Yogi*

    *Yogi* Resident Racist

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    I can honestly say I have never been to a concert, Or I just don't remember. I have been to 'steamboat days' which is a week long festival and have seen a couple there.

    I guess if I were to ever go to one, Id want at least 1 person to show me the in's and out's of them. But for the most part, I do like to enjoy activities alone so I can do as I please.
     
  10. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    I've never gone to any sort of event alone. I actually haven't even been to a movie by myself before.
     
  11. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    All the time. But I cherish doing things alone.
     
  12. deviate

    deviate Senior Member

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    Not a big concert, but small shows a few times. Is this one you are talking about in Florida?
     
  13. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    She's going to be in Jax and a little closer to me as well. Its pretty big.
     
  14. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Until I was 18 years old I didn’t even realize you could go to a movie alone since I always had lots of friends and family to go with :eek:

    Hotwater
     
  15. hahaha04

    hahaha04 Whatevers Clever

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    never a concert or festival, but movies yes. I enjoy movies alone actually. :sifone:
     
  16. deviate

    deviate Senior Member

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    I'll go with you, depending when it is. What kind of music?
     
  17. deviate

    deviate Senior Member

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    I'm considering doing that tonight now after reading this thread.
     
  18. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    I remember when I was in college calling home like " I can't eat in the cafeteria alone!" I had no clue other people did that! I'll pm you deviate.
     
  19. wobs

    wobs Senior Member

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    just go for it usedtobehoney,what you need to realize is all the people there are going for the same thing i.e the artist , so you have common ground to talk about, and you will probably make a lot of new friends
     
  20. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    I have plenty of times. I've even gone to a different state to a concert by myself, spent the night and gone home the next day. I've gone to festivals with friends but ditched them when I got there to see the band's I wanted to see. I've gone to a bunch of local shows alone too. I almost prefer it. I'm very independent. I say go for it!
     

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