for some reason I've been unable to get rock hard for a while, I have noticed that the moment I start masturbating it goes limp, I can still finish and everything but that part of it I don't like. Just to let you know I'm 20, masturbate maybe 5-10 times a day , and I never had a girlfriend, which you might say makes it irrelevant but I would like to use this thing on someone one of these days, plus I just like to look at it when it's fully erect.
Of course, the longer you leave it between sessions the better an experience will be - plus it will be much easier to achieve an erection. When I had to have my circumcision I, naturally had to abstain from all forms of sex & masturbation for at least a week - preferably longer, because of the stitches. After about 5 days I was in a perpetual state of erection, with a penis that was demanding satisfaction. Eventually there was nothing for it but to give in & I had to resort to plenty of lube (I actually used the steroidal cream I had been precribed before the procedure, in case it could avoid the necessity to have to undergo surgery, as it was primarily Liquid Parafin) & just stimulated the glans & the coronal ridge with my forefingers, without the usual stroking which would otherwise put a strain on the stitches. The resulting orgasm so intense it just blew my mind, with a massive ejaculation from all the accrued semen from the past week. The epilepsy medication I am on is also known to have a detrimental effect on sexual performance, inasmuch as it retards ejaculation / orgasm & in certain cases (fortunately not in mine), erectile dysfunction. However, I am affected by the problems with reaching an orgasm (except while masturbating, as having full control overrides that problem). This means that when I have a sex date, be it with a male or female, I always try to abstain from masturbating at least a couple of days beforehand. This makes the experience more enjoyable, and the orgasm easier to achieve.
I would recommend less frequent masturbation, and checking up your health. You're young, but how's your blood pressure and blood glucose? Hypertension and diabetes can wreck your hard on, as can certain medications. See what happens when you wait between session, and if there is no improvement, look into your health.
I've had erectile dysfunction for several years. My doctor says it's all about blood pressure, but I disagree. I think it has a lot to do with psychological triggers to arousal. When I was 40 I divorced a woman who stopped having sex with me. Worse, she humiliated me when I asked for it and made me feel undesirable. I remarried within a year and had trouble getting an erection with my new wife who wanted me in the worst way. When I realized the problem, I did some psychotherapy on myself and reconditioned my response mechanism: naked wife = hard dick, instead of naked wife = wife doesn't wants my dick. I'm serious and sincere. Once the response mechanism was restored, I could pound my wife for an hour like a guy your age. The advice in this thread about health and medication issues is absolutely valid. But my guess is that you grab your dick so often that it doesn't send an intense signal to your brain any more. That may sound scary and it could be an exaggeration, but son, you ain't really got a problem. Just play with the head of your dick by rolling it between your thumb and forefinger. Don't pound your shaft and don't be focused on ejaculation. And for God's sake, stick your dick in some real pussy. Forget girlfriends. Go find a whore, pay her price and tell her she's your first woman. You'd be surprised how tenderhearted a whore can be. I can still remember my sweet little Mexican whore whispering in my ear when I came inside her the night of my high school graduation. And thanks for being open, real and vulnerable. I wish you many happy years of fucking. May the Force be with you )
Let's see--10 times a day. 8 hours to sleep, 8 hours to work and evidently 8 hours to pound pud. So, maybe more than once an hour? It's a wonder your pecker doesn't just retreat up inside you in total surrender!! Give that skin pickle a rest, man.
Stop punching the clown 20x aday and you won't have any issues. What comes out when you orgasm after 20x? Air? I'm not kidding. If you feel a need to masturbate 20x a day I might want to talk to a medical professional. If you sleep six hours. Thats 20x in 18 hrs. Good luck friend! RRR
I've never had an urge to masturbate more than once a day. If I do though its usually 10 to 12 hours apart for each time. I couldn't imagin doing it 10 times a day. I would seek counseling if that was my case.
That is to much masterbation lol. But you can also perform PE (penis exercises) to improve erection quality (EQ). I have seen positive results from PE. Below is my thread on my experience with PE. http://www.hipforums.com/forum/topic/463689-men-and-womens-experience-with-penis-exercise-pe/
