Have I found the perfect man?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Tree-Hugger, Apr 14, 2008.

  1. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    You're welcome :D
     
  2. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    So, are you going to explain to me what KC said in your own words or not? :toetap:
     
  3. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    i think actual intimacy is scary for her because she's more afraid of her flaws than a relationship. and if she gets intimate, she'll have to share, she'll have to give a shit about someone else's feelings, though i don't know if she has the skills yet to do so.
     
  4. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Doesnt matter.
    I'm being nice from now on, cause I made John sad.
     
  5. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    TreeHugger, I'm so sorry about this thread..It was suppose to be about your perfect guy. Sorry for starting all this off topic shit.
     
  6. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    *edit*

    No I don't. I love you too shroomie.
     
  7. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    I don't care if my threads go off topic.

    Piaf like you I get bored with guys rather easy. For me I know it's because I fear commitment...so I don't allow myself to get too emotionally involved.

    In fact, when I do like someone and actually want to give it a try... I have to fight my fight or flight response. ;)
     
  8. Makaveli_Reborn

    Makaveli_Reborn No?

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    Bingo! Just like I wont date a girl that cheats on her bf with me and then leaves him to try to be with me.

    Do I look stupid? I know it's a ticking time bomb waiting for my turn.

    And you found the perfect man years ago when he pushed you in the mud.

    Just took him a while to get perfected. ;)
     
  9. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    No I found the proverbial thorn in my side.
     
  10. Makaveli_Reborn

    Makaveli_Reborn No?

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    Psssh. You must enjoy pain in your ass, because you sure do bitch when he's gone. :D

    Edit: And he's closer to perfection than you'll find in Ga. ;)
     
  11. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    One day....I missed having him around for 1 day. :rolleyes:

    Oh I doubt it.
     
  12. Makaveli_Reborn

    Makaveli_Reborn No?

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    Put your money where your mouth is. Bet you couldn't go a month without talking to him.

    Edit: Money is figurative in this instance.... we can bet anything you'd like. ;)
     
  13. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    You'll get your money and I don't give a fuck if you were only joking.
     
  14. Makaveli_Reborn

    Makaveli_Reborn No?

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    It'll just make it worse. Especially if you keep seeing the coffee guy in the mornings. Haha. . .
     
  15. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    Time doesn't make my heart grow fonder.
     
  16. Makaveli_Reborn

    Makaveli_Reborn No?

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    You owe me fifty bucks anyway. You just lost the bet twice within the first five minutes. It was so hard for you to do it that you didn't even realize you were losing while you were losing. ;)
     
  17. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Another skill-set is trusting someone enough to allow them personal space.
     
  18. myself

    myself just me

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    I see that as a barrier... and most probably a failure on my side... I mean, it will most likely end with my failure.
     
  19. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    and yet another is knowing when that personal space has become a massive wall that needs to be taken down.
     
  20. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    That's true.

    But both feed off each other. My experience is that the more people prod me, the more walls I put up. The less they prod, the more I share.

    Sharing cannot be forced upon people.
     

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