Have any of you chosen a partner because he or she was hot hot hot and shortly there after turned into a fat fuck who you refused to fuck. I ask this because it has happened to several of my friends both male and female who now have separate bedrooms or divorced or stay together but have a sexless marriage. Not fat bashing this is more like hot hot hot bashing.
The wording of your question would have been easily answered when I was in my 20's as I was all about appearance. My first wife was a Penthouse Playmate in the mid 80's, all my friends new her before I did but she was with me...not them. She was gorgeous, great in bed, spontaneous at times, and ever so devilish as well. However, after having been "hypnotized" by the beauty and sex she did put on weight after having three children. Not more than I thought was a turn off but was to her...She slowly became known to me as a "narcissist" yet I ignored it as she'd sexually satisfy me with her mouth, pussy, and ass. After 25 years I couldn't take the "ALL ABOUT ME" anymore as my bank account couldn't sustain her lifestyle of "Going Out" to ritzy places behind my back. So, it's not always about loosing their figure, it happens, but for me it was her down right personal greed that ruined our 28 year relationship (25 married) that I did not ask for, but when she asked I did not deny her the freedom. I'm approaching 12 years later and have more money than I know what to do with. Well I do...I share it with my 2nd wife in the real estate we've accumulated over the past 9 years. She on the other hand is not doing near as well as she has a "man" but needed to pay the bills she cannot afford to do so on her own...Yep, she's whoring herself out for what she needs. She's not happy, she's told me and her sister has told me she's regretted leaving but she did build her nest and it's a nest I stay as far away from as possible.