being alone, or worse yet, going from person to person and having pieces of the heart chipped away each time... is also a miserable way to live life... I value loyalty and dedication ... I know long term would require work but anything worth obtaining in life, does... Im not just talking silly... I know the cautions... Ive watched my parents all these years ... damn if any set of people should have split up years ago, it should have been them.... its the most hurtful thing to see 2 people together who are miserable.... and for that reason alone I am afraid....... but I dont want to let fear run my life either. Ive let it run my life too long... I believe what my heart yearns for. I believe that if there is something so deep and earnest that there has to be something out there to respond to it......... a perfect reflection.... so call me a hopeless romantic! ... but at least I have hopes..
Enya -Only Time ... Who can say Where the road goes Where the day flows - Only time Who can say why your heart sighs as your love flies -Only time And who can say why your heart cries when your love lies -Only time Who can say when the roads meet that love might be in your heart And who can say when the day sleeps if the night keeps all your heart Night keeps all your heart Who can say if your love grows as your heart shows -Only time And who can say Where the road goes Where the day flows, -Only time Who knows-only time Who knows-only time.....
I'm not sure I agree with this. Of all the weddings I've hosted over the years I would say 40% were in their 20s, 40% in their 30's and 20% 40 or older, many of them their first marriage. I also look at someone like my brother. He's had relationships of 5 years, 3 years and 6 years. He's 38 and has never been married, but certainly has the ability to make a connection with someone romantically.
3 horny ladies in one thread. No clue how to solve it. You could almost make a documentary about it. I did say almost. Sorry G/f no fresh ideas that are not cliched.. i was just going to say ''buy a horse''.
..so? Well I look at it this way ... I dont dwell on all the bad relationships I see... I also see alot of people in very loving relationships that have lasted many years ... and that encourages me... if they can have it, why cant I? I'd rather go through life, hoping for something and it may or may not happen ..... then go through life, pessimistic and miserable because I've been burned and all I see are ugly relationships and Im too scared to get involved... which is the way I could be.... For me, to not believe in love would be like not believing in air ...... I couldnt breath. In that case, I'd rather be dead.
to each their own I personally know I will get married before I turn 30, for me that's the cut off age. But I'm a woman so it's a lot different. I admire people who don't mind living the majority of their life alone, but I know it's not for me.
i agree with this just let things happen the moment you stop looking for long term, you'll find yourself in it things tend to happen when you least expect it but good luck finding your 'one'
To me the key is turning a wish into a reality. To dream is one thing, but to take the steps necessary to make that dream a reality, that should be your focus. IMO.
oh for sure you have to let things happen. I never force romances. Sometimes you just make those magical connections though and your know and I've had a few of those passion, lust and true unconditional caring is really all I need to say yes. I've said yes to one guy and the first two were non existent for me so I had to end it but if I am guessing I will find somone with all three before I am 30 and will have my private barefoot wedding on the beach before the big 30 and a cute kid from south america or china by the time I am 35...not that it's a clear cut timeline but just to make sure I do not waste my life and not reach/fulfill my true potential