Has This Happened To Any Other Guy Too? First Time

Whats up guys , I want to get some opinions on what happened with me recently.

Im a male, just started college and I started talking once again to this woman I've known for many years as an acquaintance. Im still a virgin, I've never felt the need to start having sex and I have always planned to wait till marriage before having sex. I've actually turned a couple girls down during high school. Anyways since college started though I've now felt the urge to have sex. Not because my sexual drive has increased( i can control myself) but I've just changed my views about waiting to have sex till marriage. Im a curious guy and i know I'm capable of getting a women to have sex with so I just decided why not have sex with this women. As I said before, we started talking and i brought it into the conversation and she agreed. She's 21 and has obviously had more experience than me but i decided to go through with it anyways since it didn't bother me . I didn't bring up that i was a virgin because i thought it would change her opinion of me in a negative way. I just didn't think she needed to know. We meet up a few days later and before having sex we had some foreplay . (Im going to go a lil into details here so it can help you guys to formulate a better answer )

It came to the time where she started to suck my dick. I didn't know what to expect, Honestly i always imagined it to feel better . Don't get me wrong it felt nice but maybe it was just that my expectations were too high. after she had done that for some time i put my condom on and once it got down to actually having sexual intercourse i got soft. I couldn't stay hard enough to penetrate her. I took off the condom and she sucked me again to get me hard.

Once i got hard again i put on another condom and once again when it got right down to doing it I got soft again. I couldn't figure out why . I didn't feel nervous . I felt good. it was just all new though . I tried to get hard for her again but i couldn't. My mind was keeping me from doing it. I told her i wasn't horny enough for her and it just wasn't going to work out because we didn't have the chemistry. She had felt bad because she couldn't finish me off but i don't her not to worry about. I dont think it was her fault

Why do you guys think I couldn't only get hard when I'm getting my dick sucked?

 

Clearly wasn't a connection. For you, I'd say you have to have some hot thoughts in reserve. Think about some hot experiences you've had and try to equate that with what you're doing - that might keep you hard and more in the mood. If that fails, change partners.