Has the lack of sex at home driven you towards your Bi Curiosities

Same as all other posts, when we were younger no problem it was she complained when it went 4 days or more.if we didn’t have sex We had our son it was up and down after she turned 40 we had nasty fights about it. Then it become quarterly once every 4 months I had a fwb to fill in but with her it was only a few times a year. She’s now in a serious relationship and I’ve backed off. So I’m going on one full year no sex. It’s funny my relationship with my wife is great we are happy but no sex. I don’t even ask cause she’s not into it so why rock the boat. Im planning to have my first bi experience talking with a guy and we tried to meet up today but location was a problem. Hopefully next week goes better. Im so hungry for sex I’m almost dizzy thinking about getting together with him. He’s a top and I listed I’m a bottom, so will post after I see him.

 

It's not that women don't understand that we still have urges even if theirs have left the building: You're not allowed to want or have anyone other than her and you can blame the rules of monogamy, as laid out in the Old Testament, for this very major disconnect between men and women. Then you consider that she can invoke "It's my body and I don't have to have t sex with you if I don't want to" and I can't remember the last time a man took his wife to court for alienation of affection or loss of consortium but I've heard of it happening but not since the courts decided that if you have sex with your woman and she didn't want to, you can be charged with rape and you cannot make her have sex with you.

I still haven't really figured out why turning to men for sex after the well has run dry makes all the sense in the world; some guys in this situation won't even think about getting a female lover but, yup, when he has the "what am I going to do now?" conversation with himself, some "voice" must say, "You need to get some dick now..." and, yeah - that's the ticket! They know that we still have urges; they just become indifferent to them, don't want anything to do with them and, yeah, not too keen about sleeping in the same bed with you; don't look at her, don't touch her and... holy shit this just got totally all fucked up, didn't it?

Some women, believe it or not, seem to think that just because they don't want to have sex anymore, you're not supposed to want to, either - and they wind up getting the shock of their lives to find out that her man not only decided to keep on having sex, he's doing it with another man! Why? What's the answer to this question: If you're not going to fuck him, who's supposed to? And if you say that the answer is, "No one is supposed to!" then, there's your answer to why he's having sex with a man... because he's not going to accept that answer.

I haven't gotten to the no sex at home point but it's a good thing I've always been bisexual - and she knows that I am (and I have permission to get some dick) so I don't see running into the problems other guys can wind up facing when Mother Nature fucks everything up for the both of you and now... alternatives are still needed... and getting some dick works.

 

I just submitted to a guy sucking me off out of frustration, to get my throbbing rocks off. I wasn't even Bi, until I realised I liked sucking one too.
I felt guilty getting it on with women, she would be too upset about it, still would be. She surprisingly didn't care how much I got it on with bi males.

 

Yes, I understand that some guys will do it out of frustration - and I still think that women don't really seem to care what our great need for sex can and will make us do once they decide to ween us off the coochie. I've thought that some women don't mind if their man is having sex with men... because that means he's not having sex with her or trying to. I don't know how many times I've given a guy his first experience and he speaks to being frustrated and at his wit's end and we're about to do this because, "I don't know what else to do." I don't know how you don't have compassion for these guys but it makes me give them the best blowjob I can manage to give them...

 

So true, I've sucked off so many men sexually frustrated with the lack of sex from their wives. It was actually a turn on for me as I held nothing back and provided them the blowjob of their life and many had told me so. It's a good feeling to know what you've just provided is so well appreciated.

 

Absolutely! Makes it even better for them if they've ever been sucked off and seeing that "I don't believe he's gonna make me cum!" look on their face just before they bust what has to be the biggest nut of their life to date.

 

Indeed, we are. They say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach but the real way to his heart is to suck his dick and to suck him off, gleefully and without complaint - and whether he asks for it or not. You can never underestimate what a good blowjob can do for a guy who is curious and game to end it because he's not getting any at home or not "getting enough," oh, like being sucked off.

 

Married men are the most appreciative recipients of pleasure out there. Current friend is a recently divorced 60 something who hadn't had anyone give him pleasure in a long time. First blowjob, I got his cock working like he was 20 again. He went from no blowjobs to getting his cock sucked dry.

One thing I don't quite get is how women can look at a cock like his and not want it. He is over 7 inches, hard as a rock and a big mushroom. Absolutely amazing cock and she wasn't interested. He isn't the only one. Most of the married or divorced guys Ive been with had gorgeous cocks.

 

I agree. I've said many times while sucking a married guy's sexy cock "I don't understand why she won't suck on this sexy cock of yours"? After satisfying them and swallowing their load many would ask "May I stop over again when in need"? Of course you can I say.

 

I wouldn't say it drove me to it. I was already there. However, I have thought it about even more.

 

My older cock sucking friend Mike, of many years ago, sucked down so many loads of come, he had to count the calories in his diet. He reckoned each was about 90 calories. One cock after another shot off for him. He sucked me dry many times. I needed his services. I had no outlet, Nobody to share all this come with, I was producing. It's a pity to waste it, and the wife didn't want it. Why, I'm still pulling myself off and wasting it.

 

I've always preferred getting it on with a woman, never considered having sex with another guy. Lately my wife's libido has flat lined. She seems to have lost all interest and refuses to respond. I discovered much the same was going on with a friend I occasionally hung out with. Both of us were getting frustrated with our home lives and reaching the point of desparation. That was soon solved on a fishing trip out of state. We were on pretty intimate terms as far as conversation. One night in the motel room that went a leap further. We had showered and we're getting ready to turn in when I caught a glimpse of his bare bottom. It was curved, pale as moonlight and looked smooth as silk. I couldn't resist. I had a feel of those squeezable half moons. It was like lighting a fire in dry brush. We cut the lights, stripped to the buff and laid down. The next thing I knew I had his slender cock in my hand and was stroking it. He really got into it and soon we were perking each other off, not just once but twice. He confessed he had had a relationship back in college and had never quite lost the urge to be with another guy. I was eager for the closeness of a willing body. We never hesitated from that moment forward. We were certainly two horny sobs and the sex was fantastic. Hot, without qualms and without coaxing. We just knew what to do and how to drive the other wild in ways our wives never attempted as far as emotional, it's only as so far as the two of needed some sort of release. It's been almost a year and we're still hot for each other, although times to get alone are rare. A girlfriend would require toi much involvement and would complicate matters.

 

It was during my first marriage that the sex completely stopped and I started to get really curious about men. My wife at that time had 0 sexual desires after she had our second child and even encouraged me to bring other women back to the home and she would leave with the kids for the weekend. I met several married "straight" guys at the gym and we mostly just masturbated together and sometimes a bit more. Even now in my relationship sex 2 to 3x a week is not enough to satisfy me. My partner knows that I have a few married guy friends and we like to hang around naked but that's really as far as we go into detail. She admits my sex drive is way to high for her to satisfy. So my answer to the question is YES.. It was the main reason for my bisexual encounters with men. If I was getting my balls drained twice a day then I would be too tired most of the time to hang out with jerk buds. But for me I have developed a balance that's the best of both worlds... Meet my friends at the gym or for a hike when I have time, have a safe time together and if the she wants sex at night I can last a long time.

 

If ALL women would read this thread, they would be amazed.

I am in the group that says "Lack of sex with women, lead me down the path of playing with guys."

I was single and getting a lot of rejection from women. One day, I decided to explore a gay chat room. THAT was eye opening. It was a group of men that were just like me (alone and horny). That lead me to finding a local guy and eventually inviting him over. Over time, I realized that I was really into cock even after I got married.

Had I been some Casanova with women, I probably would have never played with guys.

In this day of technical connectivity, men that aren't getting their needs met by women can easily find a guy to satisfy them.

So, will the number of men identifying as Bi increase?