Has the lack of sex at home driven you towards your Bi Curiosities

Did you consider yourself a regular, skirt chasing ,horny guy who loved women and never thought of guys in a sexual way? Did you have certain circumstances That brought on you bi curiosities? Has it helped you or your partners relationship?Is your wife aware or is it your secret? Do you have certain parameters or do you go all out.?

 

Boy, a lot to cover in that paragraph. Yes I always considered myself a guy who likes women. I have however had a curiosity toward men even when I was getting laid at home. I never acted on it out of guilt for a long, long time. Once it got to the point I wasn’t getting any at home due to menopause it didn’t take a major shift in what I considered an alternative. It took a long time to get to the point I didn't have major guilt over going behind her back to have sex with men. Honestly, it has helped our relationship. Even though she doesn’t know. I find I don't have resentment toward her for not taking care of this ever present urge that wont go away just because she no longer has the same urge.
My limits are that I prefer to have just one friend I go to for sex, mostly because of safety reasons.

 

I really had no tendencies throughout my marriage. But I always remember my younger years with buddies and our circle jerks. Even when my wife and I started going to nudist venues I didn't trigger me to even notice other guys sexually. About 4 years ago we invited a couple we have known for years to try nudism. They took to it for other reasons than we thought . He became very curious sexually. Both his and my wife had become non sexual. My wife on account of health issues. His wife's excuse was shexwas too old for that nonsense. He and I had numerous discussions about the way they changed and how things used to be. During these times awareness developed with one another. Things happened between him and I. Neither of us necessarily was looking for it but it developed none the less.

 

I would consider myself as straight, however, having had some experiences in my teen years with friends this has always been on my mind. I do find the curiosity to try these again has risen as the sex life at home has reduced. I am back in touch with one of my old friends and we are both keen to get back to some bi activities. He is happy to wank each other off and to receive bj. So far he is not comfortable with giving a bj or anal....but who knows going forward. I have never had a male cum in my mouth so about time to put that right!

 

Was it just about sexual satisfaction, or were you into guys? This is almost a carbon copy of our friends. Both are Done with sex for the same reasons. The only difference being, both wives encouraged , know and have watched us with each other.
Its just about getting off.When we see each other, a bj is in order.

 

Our wives don't know and it was just about sexual satisfaction on both our parts. Haven't seen each other for a year now

 

Thats tough. Even though my wife says she is done with sex, she will allow me the pleasure of her strapon. Are you totally on your own for any kind of sexual satisfaction?

 

Once a guy shoots his load in your mouth, you’ll be hooked. You can’t stop thinking about your experience and plotting ways to get another creamy load on your tongue.

 

I have always been, and still am, attracted to women. I'd do the crack of dawn if I had the opportunity. While married, my wife and I were too busy having fantastic sex regularly to stray. At times I wondered what it would be like to be taken by another guy, but wouldn't consider actually acting on it. I came very close to giving in and having a fling with a couple girls I knew, especially when things got bad at home. But always erred on the side of safety and staying faithful. Once we seperated, all options were open to try. Although I was a lot older now, It seemed I had immediate interest from guys and hooked up discreetly with one to give my first blowjob. Met another who took my anal virginity and we became steady FBs for almost two years. I've been having discreet male-to-male sex whenever I can ever since. Still only attracted to women, but enjoying having sex however I can.

 

Finally managed to take my own load last night, so its a start.....

 

I can sure relate.My story is pretty much the same. She knew. I wouldn't have it any other way. Given her health status and helping, and caring for her, I haven't had a bi encounter in over10 years.

 

It absolutely has. Menopause killed my wife’s sex drive. After 10+ years (I lost count) I had a decision to continue masturbating and never have an orgasm again with another person or do something about it.

Another woman was out for so many reasons.

I was never into guys. I mulled this over for 2 years trying to wrap my brain around it. I was in to do it and than I was out, just back and forth.

In April I took the plunge and have been experimenting since. It is definitely an experiment. Look forward to see where it goes.

 

I made the same decisions for the same reasons. It wa luckily for me when delving into mm play, that it was light and easy, just masturbating together, then introduced to cock sucking. It was light horny fun and sweet release. No pressure to do anal. Had there been o the guy was assertive etc and put the pressure on, I would have moved on and not done it.

 

Your past sounds a little more exciting than mine was…but the similarities are there
If I’d known I was going to end up divorced I would have tried to get me x into swinging
And I would have had a male fwb

 

At this point the wife makes comments regarding me fulfilling my sexual needs as “I don’t want to know.” We get along in every other regard so I leave no other indication of what I do. The last thing I want to do is hurt her.

 

Just crazy life has turned the way it has. I have been active on my journey a year now. I still struggle with it, but it’s reality. ‍♂️‍♂️

 

Lack of sex from the wife has definitely contributed to my interest in sex with men although I have always been turned on by men’s cocks. All I think about is being naked with other men and sucking their cocks

 

Lack of sex started it for me, but after hormone therapy for both of us that is much better. The thoughts are still there though, I had dropped hints to her like her finding a vibe that was mine, and getting her a strapon. Finally one night while in bed and playing around she had her strapless strapon and was enjoying it and i just bent down and started licking and sucking it. We have shared some of her dildos a few times, and I have come clean that I have these desires. She does not understand, but does indulge me in the the fantasy.