I've been doing this since I first started beating off. I have an orgasm but I can hold it in without shooting. I guess 8 started doing this when I would use a women's sweater. Basically, acrylic chunky cable knit, cashmere or angora. I do this not to get detected when I would use mom's, sister's, mother in law's grandma's or anyone one else's sweater that caught my fancy at work or in someone else's home. If I don't fuck the wife enough or she doesn't blow me (she swallows) for me to explode my cum, it goes back down to the sac, she says it tastes funny. Anyone on else able to have an orgasm without spurting all over? Only premature comes out from my cock.
Yes, it is normal and mostly depend on age. Most of the old guys don't have a tense ejeculation. But the young guys have powerful cum. Many guys try to have orgasm without ejaculation, if you can postpone the ejaculation is a plus.
I guess I should have said that I can still shoot a load out. But when masterbating, I always orgasm. Just not letting it fly. Boy, is it intense toe curler for sure!
I have orgasms without ejaculation every now and then. It takes a certain stimulation for me to do so. The last orgasm I remember was my partner laying over me while giving me a massage. She then began to concentrate on my cock and after a few minutes my body reeled up and began to tremble uncontrollably. It was very intense and when I came down she continued to massage my body leaving my cock alone. This went on for 10 or so minutes until she was back at it and masturbating me. This time I ejaculated with an intense orgasm again. I was totally wasted after that.
I believe those are called ‘dry orgasms’. They are common for boys when their spermy factories aren’t fully fired up yet. But I think older guys can have them too, if they have been cumming often and their sperm reserves are depleted. I have personally never had one, but I hear they can be painful, as the seminal fluids can be ‘backed up’ during the orgasm.
I hope I never date a guy who does this. Seems that this way he's getting to enjoy sex but without giving me a reward for all my hard work. Please shoot away!
Yes, the first time my wife gave me orgasms through prostrate stimulation. It felt like I was going to do an enormous wee; so I held it in like you do if stopping a wee mid stream. I believe they are called the kegere muscles. I held , held and held it till, I had the most intense orgasm quivering all over. My wife continued to try four more times in a row, but each time no ejaculation. The next night, prostrate stimulation again, I just put in my head that it was ok to wee in bed. It did the trick. I had the most intense orgasms again, and a large volume of ejaculate came out each time in a pulsing trembling tidal wave. There hasn't been a dry orgasm since, in fact, quite the opposite.
Hmm that's sexy. Does volume help. My gf had an ex who she said always shot massive loads. He never jerked off between fucking her (more guys do than you'd think) and wherever he came she was flooded.
More is always better, I always say. Mostly because I assume it means he's really feeling extra good.
I’ve only had this happen when edging. When I get to close to the PNR and I’m really trying to hold it back, I have an orgasm without cumming. I feel satisfied to some extent although having a shooting orgasm feels better. Good news for the significant other, I still have a load to blow.
After I suffered through a severe prostate infection in my early 50s, the urologist put me on Flomax. Turns out that I was one of the 10% who respond to that drug by having dry orgasms exclusively. It didn’t matter how long I waited between sessions (solo or partner) or how much edging I did before letting go, not a single drop arrived at the exit either at the moment of climax or later on as penis went flaccid. Despite that, my pelvic floor muscles pulsed with all their might with each orgasm, as if they were trying hard to expel the nonexistent semen. It was almost painful that they were squeezing so hard on an empty tube. I even did a test for retrograde ejaculation (by peeing into a clear glass immediately after orgasm). If I were going retrograde, gobs of semen would have been visible in the pee sample. But the pee was completely clear and normal. Turns out the prostate contains smooth muscle (very similar to heart muscle tissue) that contracts during orgasm. The effect is that it wrings out the prostate, as if it were a sponge, into the urethra, where the output mixes with the other ingredients of semen. The Flomax drug works by relaxing smooth muscle. In 10% of users, including myself, it relaxes the prostate so much that it fails to contract at all during orgasm. I complained to the urologist about this side effect, and he changed my medication to Uroxatral. My orgasms went back to normal the day after I switched. Before this whole ordeal, I had read in various sources that men could train themselves to orgasm without squirting. I tried all the exercises recommended in the articles, but was still unable to hold back the semen. The closest I was ever able to get was to edge to very near the cliff. The result was what I describe as a half-orgasm. It feels good, with some ripply contractions, but not nearly as good as ejaculating. Of course I could do it multiple times in a session, and then conclude with a seminal explosion. I am now in my late sixties. Getting any semen to exit my penis at the moment of orgasm is a treat that I can no longer count on each time. Oh to be again the semen fountain I was twenty years ago, when I could routinely ejaculate four times each day. But I’m grateful that Mr Happy still works at all. Not all men my age are that lucky. And now, on the infrequent occasions when I do get off a good squirt, I appreciate so much more than I did in my youth.