most often pursued where it is least likely to be found. (and the few who come to realize they're not going to find it in excitement, often turn to 'religious' fantasies, where they don't find it either) exploring is where all sentients find it, creating is where sapients find it also. if such a distinction exists, that is the alpha and omega of it. a contentment which does not require dramatic expression.
knowing that you can choose what to pretend, and that nothing anyone else tells you to, is any more nor less likely. that things that don't depend on what we pretend, also don't depend on what anyone tells anyone else to either. it is also a hug, that lasts just as long enough as you need it, but not too long to keep you from doing anything else.
being noticed for the reasons you would wish to be, and not those you would not. being able to make real the things you make in your head.
a world of hippy shacks, populated by quiet, considerate and creative people, instead of mcmansions occupied by 'retarded' alcoholic fascists. narrow gauge railways instead of paved roads. a walk in the woods, with small furry feral creatures.
Watching Retired Hippie filling his EVER-so-butch motorcycle's fuel tank with fairy dust. [don't deny it-it's on Youtube, RT....and you were wearing your pink lacy gloves at the time!] Mwahahahaaaaa....got'im!
happiness is easy when you're not looking for it in the wrong places, (booze, money, popularity, political power) and no one is robbing you (by their hate and anger) of looking for in the right ones. (creating, exploring, generosity, imagination) happiness is a world that doesn't try to tell you what to pretend, it is the universal wonder of strangeness without stress.
retaining the imagination you were born with, instead of buying into the nonsense that it is something to leave behind with childhood, and replace with an eternal, and seldom completely gratifying, pursuit of sex, power, wealth, and mind altering substances.
Happiness is sitting on the beach in the sun,in complete solitude,as the pooches prance around,whilst I play my old Hofner
Happiness is walking barefoot in the forest feeling the secret eyes of the wilderness watching you........
to live in a world where angry hateful people did not try to claim they were conserving anything, and no one was gullible enough to buy that they were