I have long accepted that I will never be able to stroke a lady’s hoohoo as well as she can stroke it for herself. Not having one myself, there is no way I can know what feels best to her. Likewise the vast majority of women have no inkling what it’s like to have a penis. There is no way a woman can stroke one as skillfully as its owner can do it himself. So when one person masturbates another, the joy is in the sharing. But don’t expect the tactile part of it to match what you can give yourself.
Yes. Sometimes I have to give specific instructions on how to get me off faster, but generally speaking I love handjobs (from girls or guys).
One of the girls from my gym does a great job she has long fingers,I like the way she wraps them around my cock. She does a double handed job on me,it really sets me up for some big cock fucking
My ex was very good at sucking my cock, but her technique for handjobs was very lacking. She couldn't understand that you can actually injure or damage a stiff cock so she would just grab it and start yanking, absolutely no finesse or technique.
I think my problem is familiarity. If it was anyone other than wife I believe I would get a satisfying but probably quite prompt result. As it is. I really miss being jerked off. Happened maybe half a dozen times in 20 years.
I think for me it requires an open mind. I find I have preconceived notion of what I like. So I need to regard it as an adventure.
I find it very easy to orgasm by having my masseuse take control. She knows exactly how to get me off. Intense orgasms come from her manipulation of my penis. Then if she massages my prostate look out. I had had such an intense orgasm from her masturbation that I had tremors following it for an hour so so.
Yeah, have the same issue with my wife. Love it when she sucks me off. When she works my cock with her hands, I can get really hard. But when I get close to orgasm, her rhythm is just .... well .... wrong. Even if I grab her hand and try to control the speed/motion myself, it still doesn't work out right. I'll move her hand down to my balls/ass area, and finish wanking the sensitive head of my cock myself. Then when I'm about to cum, I'll grab her hand and cup it over the end, so I can ejaculate into it. Then she'll finish with a nice cumplay session.
Hmmm. The technique is similar in many respects so I'm surprised to hear that. When done right, the expressions on a guys face is so rewarding for me. I like taking him from level 1 to level 10 in distinct steps. And knowing how long to wait before taking him to the next level is what it's all about, IMO. There is a fine line between making him want to climb the walls in anticipation, and making him so frustrated that he gets somewhat upset.
Back when I was married Sunday was my day to kick back an watch the race on tv. Every time my wife would edge me she would undo my pants spit in her hand an stroke my cock. She was great at it an knew when to stop. She would do this ten or more time letting me go soft inbetween. When the race was over she would finish me off she would stroke me spitting in her hand for lube. She knew when I was going to Cum an would wrap her lips around the head right before I came sucking up every drop of cum. This was a Sunday thing for seven years an then problems started an we split the next year. I still watch the race an think about it every time.
I love for a female to give me a hand job. My wife has only done it a few time and she ends up with a huge cum load on her body. Now days she is not interested in sex of any form and we are lucky to do it once or twice a year.
You can't be masturbated by someone else. The dictionary says "the stimulation or manipulation of ones own genitals, especially to orgasm; sexual self gratification. but nobody can play with my cock better than me. I know what it likes!
I once had a girlfriend that had mastered jacking cocks off. Few, girlfriends came even close to that skill level but my cock enjoys the attention.
