Handjob in Boxer Shorts

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by coolgp, Dec 28, 2019.

  1. Twogigahz

    Twogigahz Members

    I'll pm you.
     
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  2. el demente

    el demente Members

    In my opinion the best blowjob involves quite a bit of use of the hands.

    The Demented One
     
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  3. coolgp

    coolgp Members

    I wouldn't know, until I read this forum my gf put me under the impression that blowjobs were only something that happened in porn :triumph:
     
  4. Jonsj

    Jonsj Members

    I have a friend who I pick up before work most day's if I'm lucky enough she sometimes does exactly as you say she gives me a wank in my boxers love it hoping to get one right now out of her. I'm being persistent lol.
     
  5. coolgp

    coolgp Members

    sounds messy, hope you keep a spare pair of boxers in your glovebox. I know I do :laughing:
     
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  6. Jonsj

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    Very messy but it's worth it. I do now take a pair in my car but the first time it happened I had a big mess in my boxer's. She's my friends wife and he has no idea lol it's been happening for over a year now and long may it continue. The women is ruthless with my dick hurts as much as it feels good sometimes but I need it and she know how important it is to me that she is the one to do it.
     
  7. coolgp

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    I bet you did! Nothing better than driving into the middle of nowhere and her going to town. You friend has probably noticed his wife’s arm muscles getting stronger no doubt :sweatsmile:. How do you mean it hurts? Just wondering if it’s the same problems I have. Are you circumcised?
     
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  8. Jonsj

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    Iv not been circumcised it sometimes hurts because she gets a little rough and I enjoy it. We normal do it in a shopping centre carpark or before work in the staff carpark.
    Her husband has no idea at all nor does my wife. I'm trying to get one out of her now.
     
  9. coolgp

    coolgp Members

    I’ve PM’d you
     
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  11. Andy Schumer

    Andy Schumer Members

    If your girlfriend doesn’t want messy hands, you can also wear a condom. It will do two things at the same time. Keep her hands clean, and no unpleasant friction for you since there will be a layer between your boxers and your skin. Or she can even do it out of the boxers that way. There are even condoms without lube on the outside.
    Blow jobs are very common, very few women I met didn’t do it. With or without a condom.
    Not all women are the same, your girlfriend might like it or not or dislike it. There is only one way to know. No one ever complained about mine.
    If your girlfriend wants to give you oral without a condom but doesn’t want to finish in the mouth there are two ways to do it
    First is to take it out and in my opinion what is the point. The second one is to move the lips on the underside of the head when you squirt
     
  12. Andy Schumer

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    Gell NO!!!! I bet it’s because she doesn’t want to do it
     
  13. Andy Schumer

    Andy Schumer Members

    Or her perceptions are quite traditional
     
  14. Barry Mandelay

    Barry Mandelay Members

    Sounds like these kids have very little sexperience. Learn this right now. Sex is messy. Both the male and female bodies discharge fluids during sex. It creates a mess. A wet sticky wonderful mess. Embrace it.
    What is lubrication? It's something to use to keep your penis from being injured. Tell her to accept that you don't want to damage your cock. She's going to get her hand messy. Jacking off a dry cock, even with a little spit, will cause permanent damage over time. You need to take care of those 4,000 plus nerve endings that signal pleasure to your brain. It's the only cock you have. Lubricate it. Get some from your local drug store and make a mess using it.
    What is a fetish? Her wanting to jack you off in your boxers. Let her and enjoy the moment. When you ejaculate let your semen soak in and make a mess. I've cum in my pants many, many times from masturbation. Afterwards I just leave it there and go on about my day. But you have a choice too. You need to tell her you want her to suck and lick the head of your cock. Or even take the whole thing into her mouth sometimes. It's a give and give situation. You give her the pleasure of getting you off in your boxers. She needs to give back with her mouth also. But only if you want her to. That's your choice if you wish for her to make a mess with her mouth. BTW, you can make a mess of her pussy with your mouth too.
    What is porn? A false world where sex happens. All kinds of sex. It is play acted for your viewing pleasure. It can be used as a learning tool also. See how the porn star licks and sucks his cock until her nose is buried into his belly. When she comes up for air look at how wet and messy that cock is. Then he ejaculates all over her body, maybe her face, making quite a mess. Well, that happens in real life too. In fact porn is based on real life scenarios. People were fucking, jacking, and sucking each other long before cameras were invented. So you both need to know porn is for entertainment purposes only. It's all play acting for you to enjoy and maybe learn how to make a mess from.
    Now go have sex and make a mess.
     
    Last edited: Apr 3, 2021
  15. coolgp

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    I haven't used condoms in years, not since i've been with my current girlfriend. I never remember them being good at stop friction, if anything they added to it, I do agree it would provide a barrier but still might introduce new problems such as noise and smell of using a condom. She will not do it out of the boxers, I have asked but she doesn't want to, its her only terms for doing anything sexual. It doesnt help that we both live with parents therefore I think shes scared of being walked in on. Not sure how condoms with no lube on the outside would work as surely you need it to be able to stroke down the shaft? She has said she has done blowjobs with lads in the past. I'm not sure if me being circumcised is putting her off as I know it isnt common in my area. Clearly Oral would not help the mess situation anyways as the cum still has to go somewhere, that is even if she would do it.
     
  16. coolgp

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    Yeah we are both very new and appreciate any advice we can get really. I think we both know it is messy (not for us at the moment with doing the boxer method) but even then she gets it on her hand which she finds inconvenient. If lube is what you describe it as she might not be keen if she doesn't even like getting her hand moist with spit any more than she has to. I have never heard that jacking dry is bad, why was this never taught in schools or past onto me by doctors? Getting worried that i/we have been doing something wrong all this time. I'm not sure if it is a fetish or not, maybe, I just have to make sure to wear my baggy boxers when I see her as she has got annoyed at me in the past for wearing tight fitting boxers that she couldn't get. her hand in. I usually do have to let it dry and walk home with it still moist, I have got used to that now. As I have mentioned at the post above she has done blowjobs before. She would probably not see it as give give situation if I tried to bring it up to her again. Yes I have seen a lot of porn and I'm aware of how it works, our sex lives are very far from what I see in the videos hence me writing this post to see if it is normal.
     
  17. Andy Schumer

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    What about if and when you would be alone together? How open and willing is she?
    So far my opinion is that you are shortchanged!
    She has done things with other guys, ..... what happened?
    If things stay that way I would not stay together for long, just me. I would have a wandering mind and dream of things I desire.
    I had covered handjobs that didn’t make much noise, there are methods that keep it quiet enough and give pleasant results
    Same with blowjobs
     
  18. Barry Mandelay

    Barry Mandelay Members

    School doesn't teach you about having great sex. They only make it known all the tragedy that might happen. Doctors will advise you if you ask but will not offer advice especially if you're not yet old enough to be responsible for yourself. Then there are some doctors who still have no clue how to have great sex. Masturbation without lubrication isn't necessarily bad. It just isn't the best thing to be rubbing just below the head (It's really called the frenulum) of your penis without it. Take your forearm and rub it with the other hand in the same spot for 15 - 20 minutes and see how irritated it gets. Do you really want to do this to your cock over and over? Now here's a suggestion if the GF doesn't care to get her hand messy with lube and semen. Get non lubricated condoms and lube up your cock before slipping the condom over it. Put a few drops of lube in the tip or semen collector of the condom too. Slide the condom over your erection and let her go to town on the dry outside. The condom should slide over your cock as she jacks away and it will feel pretty good for you. When you end up ejaculating you will fill the end of the condom with semen and it won't get on her hand or your boxers. Once you return to a flaccid state the condom can be easily slipped off and discarded. Then you won't have your semen all up inside your shorts. Personally I like feeling semen in my pants if I ejaculate in them. But that's just me. When I use a condom for intercourse (I always use lubed condoms) I make sure a few drops of lube are added to the inside before rolling it over my cock. That and using the correct size makes all the difference in the world as I can feel my cock sliding in and out of her pussy inside the condom. I get a lot more sensation by doing this than if I don't prelube the inside before putting it on.
     
  19. Andy Schumer

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    One way to masturbate dry doesn’t involve friction and provides a nice orgasm that can curl my toes and last longer when done fast by a partner.

    Grab the shaft anywhere halfway or closer to your balls, maintain the same grip and just move up and down. Easy to edge that way, I had it done to great results. No ..... to AWESOME results! Toes curling, legs tingling and trashing every single time the same girl did it while I played with her jiggling breasts
     
  20. Bryce

    Bryce A nut busting poster is a happy poster!

    I think this mostly applies if you’re cut. If you’re uncut this isn’t really an issue.
     

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