I've experienced something amazing and now that distance has come between us, we have decided that it is worth fighting for. I already have tickets to see my gf in france after Christmas, for two and a half weeks. if everything is perfect besides distance...than why let distance become a factor? if love is true and strong, than it transcends everything, and overcomes all obstacles, including distance. We are going into this experience with very open minds. with that said, any good advice on working towards a POSITIVE long distance relationship? I have good feelings about this. The worst case scenario is, we become very good friends. I don't want to hear long distance horror stories, I've taken part in one and have friends who have too, I could care less about those stories or any nay sayers. I have heard those stories and don't want to cloud my head with them to much because of the negativity, and want to avoid any self fulfilling prophecies that come from concentrating on them to much. Other experiences, no matter how common don't dictate what will happen in yours. So give constructive criticism if you need to but be positive. I have seen long distance work! I know I am not giving much information but I don't want to write a novel. ask questions if you must and trust that this is a very strong bond between two people who have experienced bull shit in the past with relationships and have a good idea of what they want and who they are.