Halp. I can't get attracted to women.

But I don't like androgenous girls I want a woman.

 

I guess it's more complicated than I thought...

 

Well there are pros and cons to typical 16-18 year olds and women, I already explained. I am adjusted to being with 16-18 year olds but my idea of a relationship with a 16-18 year old wouldn't involve sex, I would always have at the back of my mind the wish that she would look better. My ideal relationship would be with someone who is 17 and after a few years for it to become sexual as by that time she sould have blossomed into a woman and I wouldn't feel like it is a chore.

 

a modern day pygmalian.

 

You're a pygmalion.

 

no, you are times infinity.

 

no u

 

i'm telling mom.

 

You're 32...

 

what, that's supposed to mean i'm mature?

 

Util
I think I see it.You ARE attracted to women but not the types youre generally coming across.I might get abused for this but Anglo Saxo/GB and USA women are probably amongst the most "alpha female" ie showing traditional male characteristics of any in the world.Many do lose the girlish more female traits and drink beer by the pint and get curvier/ fatter at uni- or atleast thats what it seems in the bars and clubs when I was at uni.
By the end of the uni year Id go in a bar and think "fuck I fancy about 0.5 percent here.But the start of the year ( before theyd "coupled up") Id fancy lots more.
Also I think you might be simplifying it by saying all the girls where u are are "ladettes" ie doing guy-like things , but really its just the fun culture of where they are , for alot of them.

I dont mean it in a critical way , but maybe you need to brush up your pulling skills of looking in the right places , and making the right things impress them.
That was my problem in those years/
Good luck

 

i knew a guy once who mail ordered a russian bride. they both seemed pretty happy with the arrangement.

 

I went out with Russian lapdancers and yes they tend to be very "girlish" compared to numerous Western girls.Tend to be less "rounded" ( ie not fat) and not ladettish/"ballsey" definitely.
But the mail order thing , I just think its for OAP's - ie old aged perverts , with weird teeth , hygiene problems and the pulling ability of a leper with the wind.
An oldish neighbour of mine went out with a Russian internet girl and married her.
When she realised that he wasnt all she previously thought he was , she divorced him.

 

the guy i know is a friend of my husbands. he's kind of a bitch and has a hard time getting anyone except bitches to date him.

 

This guy was a smarmy 60 year old serial liar , with one leg and psoriasis who told her he was a writer with a helicopter , instead of being a lazy cheap fraudster with a vicious temper.
She was an attractive , good natured 30 year old.Glad she got out.

 

no doubt. did she have to go 'home?'

 

Nope , she stayed with him 3 or 4 years I think , really decided what an idiot he was , and got permanent GB visa status and some cash from the divorce.

I thought good luck to her.There again , Im 50 percent Russian and East European by blood ,so maybe I was biased abit
Either way , she must've felt trapped at one point.
I think she was more tolerant because alot of Russian men supposedly are semi alcoholic and a bit abusive.

 

could be. could be. but then, so are a lot of american men. i've got two dads who proved it. my mom is awfully hard to get along with though. not nearly as nice and easygoing as i am.

 

I think russian women prefer English men to their own.America I think has all extremes.
In England the older generation tend to tolerate arguing all daywith the spouse , whereas my age will just divorce( unlike my father Im very easy going but will pack up something if my tolerance is abused regularly).

 

dave and i love to argue. we don't argue about personal things, we argue about everything else. it's just fun. nothing better than drunken philosphy.