Bets are you couldn't get away without doing it and you hate that, some of us can and we love not having to do it. In some places in Europe isn't not even a concern in most cases unless it's a real problem. Most people I know think it's awesome that I don't do it, because I can get away without it. Now if you are talking some women who are abnormally hairy I can see what you are saying but really, it's a woman's choice, not yours and many have men who are happy their woman don't have to.
Gotcha, where you live people do what's ordered by standards of others. Here it's kind of by choice, I know many who don't unless they need to, but ya some here do things they are told to do too. Not me.
Yes, it has nothing to do with my preference, I just do as instructed. It's not that I want it, I am just a victim of society's standards of beauty. But omg, you are so freeminded and cool. Gosh, a real role model <3
:2thumbsup: I like real women. If they have more body hair so be it. I don't get how body hair would make a difference in how happy a person makes you feel. I prefer real over fake inside and out.
Haha, I pissed the pussy off and I'm a chic, go figure,,,, Yay, Ranger and WCW,,, yer both a great coupla guys!
Not trying to be a jerk but in this thread you remind me of my religious aunt who loved to tell people they should do this and that. She tried to get me to shave when I was about thirteen staying at her place for a summer. I didn't want to then and still don't. Some people don't know how to push right. She wasn't nearly as good at it as she thought she was but her hair is thick as trees, she has to shave since she started or be seen as it grows, stickin out of everywhere, haha. It's not about what We like, it's about what each likes.
My eyebrows are not bushy but they are not thin lines like some people like theirs. Have had a few friends ask me to let them pluck my eyebrows and once did let a friend do it. Man the tears and the pain. I would never sit at a table for two hours making myself up for any reason and plucking is against my rules since that bad experience . Waxing and putting colored goop on is out too. I hate stuff on my face or anyone touching it and causing me any discomforts at all.
This topic seems to be creating a massive stir in a lot of people. I think the trimming/de-fuzzing has become part of social norms, mostly through media (e.g. porn), people adhere to this to fit in. Men come to expect that's how a woman should look, and women feel that they should look like this too (obviously not all ). Regardless of why it has become the 'trend', whatever makes ya feel good man.
To shave, to dress like, to color, to remove and paint eyebrows back on, to act like all the others or do what they say,,, To not have one's own identity anymore.
Well, we're all heavily influenced, there is no free will (IMO), but there is freedom of choice. We're all influenced differently. I personally have better things to do with my time than to go through all that rigmarole (painting eyebrows), but I pay some attention to certain areas when I feel like it.
I thought painting eyebrows on ended back when my mom quit doing it, she realized one day that she sat an hour and some at the table every day pasting crap on her face and suddenly one day she quit. I didn't know who the hell she was! She looked better tho, she had natural beauty she wasn't given the chance to know when she did what others suggested and pushed for. After she quit she just did moisturizers and trimmed her brows some because all that plucking made them thick and nasty. She told me mine were nice and I didn't have to do them so a side from letting someone do it once I never did it and I still get along with them as they came to me, never has any man said they weren't right for my face. Some guys I scored said it was my natural side that attracted them to me so it can't be wrong. My current BF says he likes that I can be ready to go out before him. It never takes me long.
When I read this whole thread it seems to me most people are judging from a stereotypical hippie point of view: that not maintaining your pubic hair is what apes do and therefor more natural. I disagree, shaving hair off does not make a person more artificial/less natural. It really sounds kind of silly to me when I hear people say think outside of the box, but then they attack the people who say it is my choice to shave and even more silly, rigidly assume they do it out of peer pressure. Is assuming such things and projecting your view on people that think the opposite than you really thinking outside of the box? Not sure what you are calling fake or real here. Is a woman who shaves by default more fake? Less natural? Less real?