All the girls I’ve dated have been waxed; guess I’ve been spoiled. Well, I’ve been dating a girl on and off who not only doesn’t wax, she has hair on her ass, and in her ass crack. Sorry, but no amount of modern feminist ideology is going to convince me that I’m cool with this during 69, doing her from behind, etc. She’s aware I have some issue with her body hair (she’s generally hairy, but she’s understanding, and we’ve discussed it in terms of her front pubic hair mostly) but her “solution” is often to shave her front pubic hair; she pretends like the bigger issue isn’t in the back. How can she not be aware here? What do I do? And how common is this ass hair thing on girls, really? Because honestly it’s the first I’ve encountered it, that I’ve noticed anyway, and I’ve had sex with probably 30 women.
This is just a guess but she may have a mild condition of Polycystic Ovary Syndrome. It is not that common as it only affects between 5 and 10 percent of women. This condition is present in women who exhibit a few male traits like excessive body hair and higher body weight along with their menstrual cycle not being regular. It seems your girlfriend is comfortable with her body and not concerned about the excessive hair down there. She has tried to please you by removing pubic hair around her pussy but what she can't see doesn't bother her. (You could offer to shave it for her and see what kind of sex that leads to) If the condition bothers you that much you might consider moving on from this woman. Either that or accept that her body isn't like the other women you have encountered, love her for who she is, and enjoy the time you have with her.
I love a hairy woman, I find them very attractive, my ex wife was very hairy, pussy, ass crack, treasure trail to her belly button, hairy arm pits, I loved it.
I have been with hairy women, all-shaved women, and a combination. Personally, I prefer hairy. Any and everywhere. It's the way nature intended. However, the most important aspects would be honesty, decency, intelligence, compatibility and/or, if only into this aspect, how good they are in the sack. If she was near perfect in other ways, I would be happy with whatever I got per the hair.