haha, whoa..... i need some love

it isn't geeky to make the first move. if no one did then the world would stop. so now i'm begging all girls: ask us boys out! we hate asking girls out for the fear of rejection, it isn't that we don't want to, its just our pride on the line. but we hardly ever reject girls when they ask us out! trust me. have confidence because us boys won't!!!

 

You sound a lot like me, kinda shy and intimidated by new women. Sucks eh?

 

While I understand your desire and your need, which I have myself as a guy, what you are talking about is the quickest way to get genital warts, herpes, chlamydia, HIV, etc. etc. And don't go thinking that "well, condoms will stop all that" because you do all kinds of touching besides the actual dick in the hole, and you'll spread those skin infections that way real easy.

I'm sorry, I hate to be the voice of gloom and doom -- besides, we hard-up people are kindred spirits -- but you need to look at this from a perspective that won't be self-destructive. Don't let lust blind you to what is dangerous and stupid.

Good luck eventually getting what you need. Hopefully it will be someone to actually care about and stay with, who also does it for you physically. It's always better when you can be emotionally involved too.

-Jeffrey

 

Hahahaa! A lot of us guys are exactly the same way! Why do you think I go so long between girlfriends? (Alright, well, you couldn't have known that I do. But I do.)

I just looked at your gallery, and you are plenty cute! No pics of your little toes, though, for a foot-loving guy like me. I'd love to see you post some of them. Meanwhile, you lips are really really pretty. Big and soft. I bet you kiss nice.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

OMG, you are so ME! That's exactly the stuff that goes through my mind. I know I'm good. I know I'm kind, intelligent, funny, reasonably attractive, healthy, fit, no drugs or diseases, interesting, talented, fun... and still I feel like there's gotta be some reason this girl is gonna go, "Ew, you?"

It's frustrating. I would love clearer signs from a girl! I'd love it if girls also suggested the things we should go and do. Take some of the pressure off us guys for dating. I mean, I've had dates and girlfriends, plenty, and I'm no idiot when it comes to making conversation and being fun to be around, but I can never close. My girlfriends have been hard-won. A lot of them sort of just fell into my lap, so to speak.

But I think the bottom line is, NO ONE is successful all the time. It's all about putting yourself out there, putting it on the line, trying, taking a risk. I know it's easier said than done.

-Jeffrey

 

ahhh someone else posted something about the whole sex thing~~ I don't mean that I wanna run off and just get laid~~ I don't plan on having sex with anyone till I'm sure that they're a person I respect and they feel the same~~ someone that isn't just gonna be a one night stand ya know?, not necessarily a relationship but at least truly good friends~ I can have plenty of fun without sex haha~

 

I want to have some fun with you Amber.