true... very true. in this case it would be me saying the stupid shit, but it was for a distinct reason... to get my ex to dislike me. i tried to break up with her three times and she was throwing little hissy fits and crying profusely each time i was even considering it. i stayed with her (because i felt guilty?) for a little while longer and then just broke it off a couple weeks later. she then couldn't stop calling me, wanted me to come over, and all that shit. she said that she wanted to be friends, and i absolutely did not. her personality got on my nerves more than any other girl i have met, i just continued to be a complete asshole to her. now, she doesn't like me at all and i consider it a success. call me fucked up, but i feel it was the only option in the given situation.
Don't you just hate it? I realized a few days ago that i don't want to be with anyone in a realtionship. I hat 3 longer relationships, and every time i wanted to break up i hat to deal with a heartbroken guy who was promising to kill himself... What, that should be a reason for me to stay with him? People don't do that, it will only make it worse!!!!!!