I want to find the girl who told you that and smack her. women are not all the same, if a man is going to approach a women, he needs to put some effort into feeling out the situation beforehand. there's not just some pattern to follow that will get you laid or a number or whatever. grr. Your confused with girls, because they are all different. Stupid chicks will tell you what women want trying to generalize the entire population of a gender. It's steriotyping, You don't have to immidiately believe it's true because its from a female point of view. BEWARE! when stupid chicks give you advice on women as a whole, they are screwing your future chances with other girls, and screwing other girls in the process. personally i'd rather have a guy who isn't all that sure of his chances with me, but is honest with his approach, not putting up some type of front. i think Being over confident in an unknown situation makes the macker seem like an arrogant, self absorbed ass hole to me, the mackee.
Call me ridiculous? Excuse me, but dancing has been used as a form of courtship throughout the evolution of life, and not just since the invention of the flute. It's natural. Of course, not all girls want to be hit on, and the same for guys for that matter; that's why they made those mildly humourous T-shirts with catchy slogans and phrases like "This Bitch Bites" or "I'm with Stupid". You don't wanna be hit on; make yourself one of those, go look cool.
One of what's? a dancer, i'm not gonna stop dancing because some guy feels the need to rub his buisess all over my backside. *shivers* Sucks that we got to be rude and tell them to step off sometimes, but otherwise they don't get the hint. i think its very stupid that the only way guys like that can step to girls is by jabbing us. *shivers again* they must have absolutley nothing to say. Those guys just need to learn a better approach, unless they find a girl who's into it. i'm not sure but, i don't think that grinding came out along with flute music. I think men used to ask women nicely if they wanted to dance. I'm still trying to picture that one