I'll leave it up to you to determine the relative degree of difficulty of maintaining control but some examples would be - kissing, light touching, seeing your SO naked, dirty talk, porn, etc? The question came to mind when I was reminded of a friend with remarkable control!
so many variables. attraction, partner's skill level, time elapsed since last orgasm, alcohol consumption, hangover, need to poop, temperature, distractions in both the immediate area and in life in general, and i'm sure many more.
I don't usually comment on this stuff because I'm pretty reserved (add some whiskey)... a heated kissing session will do it
If it's just mild kissing, yeah then no, but if we are really into it, I can get erect fairly quickly.
When I go to change my clothes after work and discover that Jane has left my leather shorts on the bed, I have a good idea what she has in mind for the evening. If I go downstairs and discover that she is all in leather, their is no stopping us.
Kissing, a boob feel and or a rear end pat. Sometimes, a just stray thought or sight will illict an erection.
I've had a real tough time with that... One time a gal in the office needed to inspect things. She got down on the floor and said "okay, drop em"...that was the one time I sprang instant wood on a lady doc. Didn't seem to bother her at all, actually I think she thought it was cute
Was in the hospital visiting my exs mom and my exs kid teenage sister decided to sit on my lap and started to grind in my lap infront of her family
I have PGAD, so its pretty much next to impossible to do anything without needing to get a hard on. Doing anything romantic? Forget it, I'm stroking myself and getting hard right when I see her