Even when having sex with a female partner it's not been unusual for her to finger my butt, providing additional stimulation to the prostate whilst fully penetrated, and although they may not have prostates themselves I find they tend to enjoy it when I return the favour. As for anal sex, it's not as straightforward as it's made to appear in the porn films. Getting the penis to line up correctly is a job in itself, and even then it's another thing altogether to maintain the required angle whilst pushing forward in order to achieve penetration - and if you've been using sufficient lubrication this can make it harder still as the slightest error can cause it to slide all over the place & you're back to square one. Curiously, though, anal penetration seems to be easier with a female partner than it is with another man.
anal play is a very nice alternative to the norm - try lathering up inbetween the cheeks, then with a sharp razor shave yourself nice and smooth - extremely erotic. As you stroke with one hand, laying on the corner of the bed slide the middle finger of the other hand up your ass and fuck yourself. Far better with a long dressing mirror to watch yourself. Makes me hard as hell just thinking about it - fine way to pleasure myself later this afternoon after work.
i think role play with anal action is a definite turn on...i would definitely want a girl to fuck me gently with a vibrator, dildo, or strap on
I like fingering my girlfriend arse when going down on her. I like my girlfriend fingering my arse when she goes down on me.