Guys not getting enough sex from wife? Blue balls?

This is for all you women. ALL guys get blue balls and must ejaculate on a regular basis. If you are their mate understand this. If you don''t want to suck or fuck you better jack him off regularly because he WILL find someone who is willing. They are out there and there are many. You are on the road to separation.

You may think it's a game of control but it only lasts so long. Be advised. When he's gone he's gone.

 

you probably haven't noticed, but guys do have hands.

 

Misogyny. Such a turn on.

 

Do women bet blue ovaries?

 

Lol. Yeah we better bow down our beer gut superiors.

Hey guys, if you can't look after yourselves the fate of your women lays with type of me. so pick your game up, we know what we are doing.

All of your wife are belong to me.

 

lol There are times when you can't have sex exactly when you want, and it can feel like a dull ache. Not really painful, but uncomfortable, imo.

 

^^^I didn't know that.

 

Actually I have but relationships are all about a give and take and balance; and when that is way off kilter it needs to be discussed before it goes to shit. It's not all sex, it's not all one thing. But hormonal issues are important. Sex is almost as important as coffee.

And by the way aren't we in a mood tonight.

 

not really, you just posted a couple weird threads in a row.

 

What Irminsul said.

It works both ways. You have to make sure you are flicking their switch as well
The difference is you guys almost never find out the real reasons you dont get none

 

I always read the complaints and know it goes both ways. There's always an underlining issue and being in the swing scene for a few years now, fellas that look after themselves have zero problems with their wives from what I have experienced, seen, spoken about it always seems to be the ones that don't particularly look after themselves that have issues and it's not all about looks either.

You 40+ year olds that play xbox need to flick some different buttons. and while you suggest the man may go and cheat, she's probably got the same thoughts in her head too.

 

You have no chance to survive, make your time!

I don't think that's gone through my head in about sixteen YEARS

 

Yeeeah I come with some classics.

 

Yes I did. But sometimes we go a little crazy and post stupid shit if its looked at from that perspective. Tell me what do you think about this statement. It is my universal opinion (ha ha) that if you discover the perfect contentment within that you were born with, the most attractive element in your relationship will be communication. All else is accessory, yes necessary but simply accessories.

 

Based on a firm communication and openness, if the sex becomes lacking all you need to say is, "what's up." And you will get an honest answer.

 

I have a novel idea. Do things with your wife. Yesterday we went to Conasauga Falls. Hike the trail to see the falls. I lead because my wife is going blind and needs to know where to step. We saw the falls, then went to Gatlinburg for the evening. The trip to Gatlinburg was a lot of fun. We drove the state gravel roads and forged the river five times. He Jeep got wet and muddy. She puts up with my idiosyncratic behavior. I go barefoot everywhere. We picked up a trinket from one of the shops and ate dinner. We got home and had great sex. At no time did I sit in front of the TV, play on my cell phone (it stayed in the Jeep), jump on the computer or any other of life’s distractions.
We do things together and you should too. Many rewards are in you future if you do.
Last your wife is not a porn star. Stop demanding she act like a pig so you can get your rocks off.

 

WOW sounds like you had a great time and have a super relationship.

 

Earlier today I was pining over an ex-girlfriend. I miss her body. She was really sexy!

 

This is so true both ways

 

The thing is, if you treat your wife like she is disposable (“if you won’t get me off, someone else will”) then she won’t be interested. Take an interest in her needs too. Believe it or not, we do enjoy sex but I imagine that I would be drier than the Sahara desert if my husband made me feel like sex is mainly about him and if I don’t like it, he’ll go find it elsewhere.