Guys : Looking Down Womens Clothing Tops

if a woman wears clothes that enhance or draw attention to her cleavage them men are going to look. That is the way of the world. That doesn't make them perverted it makes them men. It is how you look that is important. a look as if it is the most natural thing in the world is ok, a gawp and stare is freaky.

women would soon complain enough if men weren't looking - who is happy to accept they are no longer attractive to the opposite sex and can no longer command any sort of attention?

 

The other day I saw a teen wearing shorts which had part of her butt cheeks showing - if thats dressing to get attention, it sure got mine.

 

Being a woman who is rather large in the breast department, it is sometimes rather flattering.... Sometimes it can be creepy. Depending on how obvious you are!

 

couldnt have said it better

 

Depends who's boobs they are and who's doing the looking, and how! It all matters. The sluttiest girl could be offended at the way some ugly twat is gawking at her chest, while the most uptight proper girl could be blushing when she notices the suave monsieur grazing over her hills with his eyes . . . its about the moment and everything in it. there's no black and white rules.

 

And people like you is the reason their mother should have swallowed.

If you don't want to be looked at, cover up or shut up.

 

I love being 6'4" for this very reason


The world is my booby parade



If women didn't want you to stare at their tits they wouldn't wear tops with neckline that scoop down to their belly buttons

 

I dont see much point in wearing a shirt with exposed cleavage, if the cleavage is not to be seen. Although I think if one does look at a womans cleavage, it should be more of a glance than a stare. I mean I think when a woman has exposed cleavage, (especially if she is attractive) anyone man/woman would have a hard time not looking. But again It should be done with class and respect.

Just my 2 cents

 

I'm concerned with staring more in terms of what it does to me. I'm not a starer out of concern for myself. Nothing is really worth my staring.

But, if staring at cleavages is creepy, so is exposing it. You don't have the right to the specific kind of attention you want if you choose to bring attention to yourself in public. By definition, you'll get a very democratic sample of attention-givers in all sorts of behavioral demographics if you choose to do it in a public space.

I respect the chick with no cleavage showing the most. About the chick with cleavage that enjoys the attention, I'm neutral at best (she ain't getting any from me). And the one who shows cleavage and complains about the inevitable attention, not at all. The useless complaint itself is a form of attention-whoring.

 

That's hilarious:2thumbsup:

I also think that if its out on display then yes, people are going to look...and that is likely what is intended when the woman is getting dressed and choosing that top! One of my coworkers has huge breasts and always has them on display. She also complains about being "ogled" at work and I'm always quick to tell her its hard to look away when its right there in your face. She just laughs. She loves the attention but wants to be abe to act all offended.

I wish I had boobs to put on display....the only time I had those boobs was when I was pregnant...those breasts were fantastic but when the belly went away so did the boobs...and the dreams of low cut cleavage exposing tops.

 

They don't have to big to be loved.

 

Nah-s'right! Me 'n' Tazer-we LOVE your boobs,Sassy!

 

do women LIKE men looking down their top?
depends which man ?
here's a little secret boys, its actually women who are the perverts
but society wont allow it.

women were killed for showing clevage not long ago
but inside a womans head the universe is one big orgy
only the men are good looking, confident, young and hung

 

:iagree: :2thumbsup:

 

Well said.

 

It never bothers me when guys look at cleavage. I am guilty of staring at cleavage myself. My ex husband use to try to demand I wear a bra. I was raised by a bra burner and never wore bras until I hit my 40's and that was after I had a biopsy on one of my breasts. Luckily it was negative. My ex would yell at me, "I am sick of seeing other men get hypnotized by the hypnotic sway of your breasts!" He quit nagging me when he realized women my size need custom made bras which are really expensive. He then took to just glaring at men who stared at my chest. I seldom wear low cleavage cloths but I do wear cloths that expose my shoulders because collars pinch the moles on my neck. My shoulders use to be tiny when I was thin but my breasts have always been to big. I am thinking of having a reduction to relieve back pain. Which is another reason I started wearing bras when I got older.

 

Y'know what's REALLY annoying?

When I wear a low-cut top to work,NOBODY wants to look down it!

 

A man is not a man unless he's prepared to view nice breasts at every opportunity...........................:2thumbsup:

 

If I knew my co-worker had an accidental peek, I would be a bit embarrassed and I'd try to be more careful in the future. Because ya know, showing off titties at work just isn't very professional, LOL! Personally, I'm careful about what I wear to work. I work in a male-dominated field, and have to be aware of my appearance.

On my own time though, I tend to dress more sexily. I will often wear low cut v-necks when I go out, particularly when I'm going out at night to meet friends. Contrary to what men MAY think (not all think this way) I'm not dressing for them, nor do I want their attention. I dress for myself, because wearing something sexy makes me feel good, and it puts me in a sexy mood, which I later take out on my boyfriend. I don't care one way or another what men on the street think. I honestly have no interest in their opinion whatsoever.

I don't blame anyone for looking- after all, I'm bisexual and I like looking too- but HOW they look is the important thing. There is a huge difference between an admirable glance and a lewd stare. The former is just fine, and I'd have no problem catching a guy (or girl) looking at me in that way. The latter, however, is just obnoxious and rude. Catching a guy doing that would probably annoy me. And if a guy has the brass to actually SAY something to me? Well, he gets the middle finger. There's no excuse for catcalling, and guys who do it can safely be dismissed as a$$holes.

 

unless you're a stripper.