Guys, have you ever shared your wife, fiance, or GF with another guy?

My wife and I are not into cuckolding. We both love sex too much with the opposition sex. And we love to watch each other. We also play as foursomes. I guess you could call us Stag/Vixen. We completely love seeing each other enjoy the sexual experience and practice “compersion “.

 

I would love to share her and it has been discussed but so far it has been a no.

 

Something that might help is going to and joining a clothing optional resort in your area. There, she can ask questions and get comfortable around other LS couples.

 

we have been to one, but none are close, we are not comfortable going to nude resorts that allow children. There are 2 lifestyle campgrounds but each are about 5 hours away. We want to go again and have talked about it. We went to a swingers club in town but that was a bit intimidating for both of us, more people and just wasnt our thing. Shoot me a message and we could chat more

 

My husband doesn't share me,it's my choice too. I have sex with others with him.

 

Never thought of it like that Deb, I mean it is always her choice as well but you never really hear it put that way. Made me stop a think a bit that it does sound like you dont have a choice when it is said "share your wife"

 

That’s exactly how we roll. We stay together and we play together.

 

Shared, cuckold, hot wife, Never had the label back in our day, just fun and games. She more or less set meeting. So she had the choice. I liked couple on couple, equal sharing if you wanted to call it that.
If we could go back in time, I would have been open for a few more things. For her pleasure and mine.

 

Oh to be able to wind back the clock, there were so many missed opportunities! I think we can all remember these as the years go by.

 

We got started swinging through joining a nudist club, not that their was actual swinging at the club but we met people who were swingers there most MOST of the swinging was done off club grounds at personal houses.
PS it was my wifes first time with another guy, but not her last by a loooooooong shoot lol.

 

I wonder what makes it so popular, something they seem in a movie, or just heard about it from friends/

 

I think one thing is, this generation doesn’t view sex in the same way we do. I think many of them can take it or leave it. I also think they have become jaded to sex as it is a social norm. Sex is no big deal to them. They don’t view cuckolding as demeaning at all. To them it’s just part of normal sex.

 

That is about the way we looked at it back in 1969. had great times with my hippie friends. I'll never know why I got a job, and decided to have responsibilities?

 

Same reasons we all did, JandJ. It requires money to eat, get a place to sleep, etc, etc. But I've always tried to keep my slightly off-center attitudes whilst in society. I figure my social compass is set about two points off due North.

Even now, at 76, I get along better and converse easier with people in their late 20's to early 30's than other ages.

 

If you know me, you'll know i was joking about the job. I have very few regrets about my life. I talked with many women , in the past, now never get out and socialize. to talk to anybody.

 

Yes. The best was shortly after we were married, her ex was in town on business.

The first round I watched as they reconnected. I couldn't help feeling a few pangs of jealousy, but I waited to join in till round two. That was a great night.

 

I had a girlfriend with whom we did it, we shared with her ex-boyfriend.

 

Just this week, we helped a newbie couple do their first full swap. They were eager to learn and ask many questions about the lifestyle. We played together and stayed together in the same room. I have watched my wife get penetrated and fucked many times in the past, and she has watched me. We find it intoxicating and just fun sex and not a relationship.
The newbie couple were very happy and want to do it again soon.

 

Where would a single guy be able to meet couples that are into this?