Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Duck, Jan 1, 2005.
Surveys show that a lot of men are intimidated by sex toys, let see about the forumers
not intimidated, but little plastic things don't seem sexual to me.
I use sex toys on women, its no big deal......
I agree, I don't understand how a plastic object could get anyone off.
Wifey and I love bustin out the toybox. Not all the time but it's fun every once in awhile.
I'm not intimidated by them, but they do kind of turn me off...
The only sex toy I need is my right hand. And maybe some lubricant.
the sex toys are for women your with .....not when your by yourself
i'd use them on me and my girl. after some cleaning or something of course
I think they are humorous. I couldn't imagine feeling the need to buy some toys for the bedroom. To each their own I guess.
this is actually one of the reasons why guys aren't allowed at passion parties. not only do they not buy toys, they often feel so awkward around them they act out, fool around with the sales models, and break them.
Sorry, female here, but I've used sex toys on my women...and it can be fun.
But, I also find that I have more fun (and sometimes so does she) if we just toss the toys aside.
Toys are your friend.
All the time is a little too much, but sometimes it can be great, and not to mention fun.
Vibrators are great fun. My wife likes it when I use ours on her. I like it when I use it on her.
Guys, if you have access to a vibrator, try it on yourself. Get it good and lubed and enjoy. I found the hardest thing is to not use my hand. The orgasm feels very different. There isn't anything warm wraped around the cock. It sort of feels like your dick is cumming for no reason. Very different, almost weird sensation. Give it a try!
what a boring vote, crap selection..... Do the boys use them on themsleves?
that could be the other
Would be willing to try
Guys who find toys threatning must have some real insecurities....
my hubby is pretty shy about sex toys, although I love experimenting with some... (nothing that involves nipple clamps though)... he surprised me the other day when he brought home a cock ring that he wanted to try...
I answered "I would consider using them on my woman," but really, I'm more strongly in favor of sex being between Me and Her, and just what we each bring to the encounter naturally.
I understand the intimidation factor because shit, who wants to find out that your best lingual efforts don't get her off near as well as that little Pocket Rocket, for example?! That would suck!
But for fun once in a while, I could see using toys. Funny thing is, though, I've never had occasion to use them with a girl! Just never been in that situation, although I wouldn't balk if a girl had brought a toy and wanted to mess around with it.
On the other hand, I have played around with cuffs, and rope, and hot wax and clothespins... Do those count as "toys"?
This is interesting. I've used a vibrator on my cock before, but never got near to the point of orgasming with it. I know what you mean about it feeling like you're coming for no reason, though, because since I hardly ever jerk off with lube, if I use some Astroglide, and use a light grip, it feels like that.
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