Guilt trip

do you know her friends? How do you know their respective levels of coolness

 

1. Losers hang out with other losers.

2. They don't smoke.

3. They are 16; their parents drive them to movies.

 

thanks

 

You're worrying about what other people think about you. That's lame and shows how childish you are. Get over it. It's in the past.

 

Wow alot of older people worry about the past and I guarantee you have worried about what other people think about you. Besides its a good thing that I worry because it shows im not a complete a-hole and dont give a crap.

 

You're right, I used to worry about what everyone thought, then you grow the fuck up! I'm 16 too, it doesn't mean you have to give a shit. Just because you worry doesn't mean you care, you could be just protecting your ass, too.

p.s. 'alot' is two words.

 

I dont worry about what everyone thinks, but when it comes to my friends I tend to worry more and now i know what kind of person u are from your last statement.

 

What does that mean?

 

I dont fucking know...umm whatever u want it to mean

 

Haha, ok good.

 

im sure a lot of people are talking from a position of either being in the bad books often, or never being considered by your friends parents as a particular trouble maker.

never underestimate the power of your friends parents oppinions of you. firstly, anything can and usually will get back to your own parents if your parents care about it. second, any parent who gives a fuck about their kids is gonna be extra suspicious when theyre hangin out with some kid who they have heard to be a bad seed. if they are conservative, they will in many cases try to prevent their kid from seeing you.

its basic, its elementry, and it has nothing to do with 'caring what people think of you' as much as not wanting people rattin on yo ass and taddlin on yo peaches

 

Just befriend people with cars.

 

ran out of precious time

 

Obviously you didn't give a crap about respecting your friend to begin with.

 

You're a naughty little bitch and you're going to rot in hell for this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just kidding. Actually, when I first read this post, I thought, wow, what an asshole. If I were her friend I would be so pissed off. Other people had already made posts with that basic sense, so I moved on. Then earlier today I was reminicsing about my early pot smoking days. When I was 15/16ish I would smoke up any opportunity I got, no matter who it would piss off. I wasn't a disrespectful kid in other senses, but weed was my newfound god at the time, and I would do anything for her, and no peer or her mother would stand in my way. So whatever. You're young, and yea, you acted ignorant and disrespectful. Don't sweat it, but don't do the same thing again. Simple.

 

1. This can be true, but at the same time it is not always true. Either way I saw nothing that made anyone in her story a "loser"

2. They don't smoke....big deal. I know plenty of "cool" people who do not smoke. What is your point? If you really think someone is "un-cool" because they don't (or in many cases can't) smoke, then you need to open your eyes.

3. Not all children can afford a car right when they turn 16. Maybe the other kids were 15 and their parents don't trust 16 year old drivers (which isn't necessarily a bad thing, teenage drivers can be very shitty).

Either way you are a 16 year old who needs to realize that cool does not relate to smoking weed and that you have to respect the wishes of your friends

 

If what I do hurts them then i move on i dont want to put up with peoples bullshit im going to live how i want to no matter how they like it its not disrespect its just life thats how i feel if you dont like it then thats cool too but thats me