grrr

msn sucks my ass
stupid thing decides to randomly sign me in as online when I'm usually 'appear invisible' (since I don't have it to talk to folks, just so I know when I get new email)

fuckity

 

yea, somehow i'm always signed in too...i rarely use it

 

I use trillian. It follows my every whim, and I can be signed on several IM's at once.

But usually I don't want to talk to half those people.

 

Yeah!^ I use trillian too. It saves your settings so you can actually sign in in invisible mode and see who's online before they see you.

 

Yeah, it always does that to me as well, it is extra annoying.