Good God, I am a doormat

I really am. Is there some kind of pill one can take that will allow one to keep themselves from allowing people to walk all over them? There should be.

 

Try to convert into an elephant, that usually works.

 

Now that is the most sensible thing I have heard all day.

 

I think you made a typo; you did not hear it but you read it.

 

what is it that makes you a doormat?

 

The fact that people wipe their feet on him/her.

 

From my experience with doormats is they are usually only attracted to people with dirty shoes.

 

That was deep, brother. I had to think about that a couple of times.

 

did you think about it in french?

 

Mais oui, mon ami.

 

sorry, I dont speak mexican....

 

Me too, I only eat it.

 

what happened christine?

speak up for yourself, it feels good!
but sometimes you gotta bite your tongue, its best not to say anything so dont worry about it.

 

basically, from experience, you have to learn to be a selfish asshole. then, after a while, all the people who like to walk all over you go away, and your facade of evilness will only be seen through by those people who truly give a shit about you and you will therefore have deeper, more meaningful relationships. sometimes getting away from the habitual role within your family and friendships for a good long while assist in this attempt.

 

Nothing in particular happened I guess, it's just an ongoing thing. I'm just so tired of people depending on me and also pressuring me to be something that I'm not and to do things that I don't want to do. But I just can't help it. No wonder I don't have respect.

You are right KC, but I just can't seem to do it. Which is why I need the pill

 

give it a couple years, christine. then you'll just be so fucking sick and tired of it all that you won't be able to stop yourself. though i still deal with the disappointment of my father of turning down west point (i'm a pacifist, and frankly, i woulda fucked my way through school), it just wasn't me. besides, my own merits didn't get me nominated, dal did. but it still messes with your head. all i wanted was to be a mom, have a stable home, and take care of people. FUCK what everyone else wants. i'm gonna be a fucking nurse, goddammit. learn to cuss more, it scares people off.

 

Meth, Blow, alcohol or steroids. They make you agressive so you might piss people off but wont let people walk over you. I'd try something else like talking about it to people.

 

would you rather be a door?
or a chair?

decide what you want to be and be it?

 

Your responses always cheer me up Chief, thank you

Actually, I think I'd like to be a table though....

 

ooh! i've had sex ON tables, but not With any!!!