Good Girls Have Reached Unicorn Status

http://elitedaily.com/dating/gentlemen/good-girls-unicorns/

An article by Pressed Rat.

 

Great article.

 

Is it?

 

that article was ridiculous.

 

That's a horrible article just ripe with insecurities, and I'm not sure that guy has ever been laid after reading that.

Give me a woman that's open and knows what she wants, been a slut, been through shit, been hooked on drugs, what have you. But she has a heart of gold and is loyal. The fact is there's a certain part of the male mind that wants that 'good girl' just to feel like you are all that is man, but in mine it's non existent these days. Those are the ones that are boring when it comes to sex and generally closed off to new experiences. And the ones that nag over stupid shit like you go out to lunch together and catch shit for ordering a beer during the day.

 

Utter bullshit.

 

The best part of encountering it was having a female friend post it on Facebook and say a must read, something we all need to learn. I don't think there was any sarcasm.

 

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I like this acuarela character.

 

Well it's true that women are different than they were in the past, at least in the sense they can be more openly sexualized and it's more accepted. They're mad forward too, like in a bar saying 'are you going to take me home and fuck me now?'

I guess someone with serious issues relating to women in general and who doesn't have a sense of self or experience around women would be distraught by this change. But the whole world has changed not just women.

The main thing that's important to me is that once if and when you are actually locked down together she's not fucking a bunch of people behind my back, or will leave at the drop of a hat because some guy is talking a game and is in front of her. Those kinds have turned me into the kind of guy who just has fun with women then moves on to the next one. It's like a perpetual cycle between the two sexes.

 

Haha thanks! Matt might not feel he same. He always hates when I come back.

Deviate, I think my main problem is the double standard of the article. What makes a. Good person does not change depending on your sex and I don't think it has anything to do with how much or how little sex you have. And still that's not the problem, but that the guy who wrote this thinks is ok for men to indulge in casual sex and they can still remain a gentleman while girls must refrain because they can only be a slut or a "good girl". It's beyond ridiculous. And I can only hope that guy has never been laid or at least will never get laid again lol.

 

No, I agree. When I was younger I used to get insecure with things like hearing a gf talk about her exes. I don't know, maybe it's maturity but I look back at all the shit I've done and who am I to judge? I don't want a woman with no experience, and especially when the woman is confident in herself and loyal. That's the best kind. A gangbang would probably bother me lol, I'd want to beat the shit out of all those guys. But that's not what this article is even about. This is a guy who's insecure about his girl having had any past, yet the ones who enjoy sex are sluts and not meant to settle down with just be fucktoys.

So basically he's (if he actually does get laid) a douchebag and white knight combo package.

 

I guess she missed the part where he said he would eventually get bored of the unicorn and cheat on her.
his whole argument was so poorly constructed and smacked of insecurity and an inability to ever find satisfaction in anyone.

 

yeah that part really bothered me. So the girl who occasionally and/or frequently partakes in casual sex (basically most modern women) isn't deserving of love?

 

gender relations don't seem to be too good these days

some of the casual sex may come from a greater sense of sexual freedom

some of it is coming from dysfunction and more pressure to put out in order to have any contact with guys

 

Great article. Would write again.

 

We're broken! Haha

Even the people I know who don't have any casual sex are not so judgemental.

I didn't read the part when he said he would cheat. I stopped once I realized he was not turning around and this is what he really believed.

 

yeah..that guy's a dumbass

 

I think that kokujin cat wrote it :rofl:

 

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