Eating Pussy is just Awesome!! I did this many many times while still a virgin. I have always prefered giving orally then receiving orally. The best for me is pleasing ur lover in such an intimate, Hot, Sexy way. Seeing her get soooooo wet, hearing her moan, the shaking, the bucking, the pulling, the pressing in.....seeing her nipples errect, touchin and licking and sucking all of her special special spots, teasing her clit until she has a powerful powerful ORGASM.....often multiple orgasms. just Awesome! Paul (sorry if i was too graphic)
Ok here is my opinion. 1st my man loves giving me oral pleasure as much as I like to recieve it. This happens every day at least once a day. 2nd. during the few times that I had a girlfriend I enjoyed going down on her as much as she down on me. I personally like the taste as long as they are clean. Melissa
I feel this way too. I will take it a step further. I find it to be a spiritual experience. I like to view my lover as a sanctuary and her body as my host. As far as having an orgasm, well that is secondary to me and I enjoy giving a woman pleasure even more than having an orgasm myself. What I really like is for myself to feel the intense build up of passion and to keep it there without release. I like this further to lead me to acts of ecstasy while making love to her, to loose control, as it were, in pleasure. (the things a man will do at that stage are outta sight) I have found that this can be carried on for long periods of time and that the pleasure becomes greater as the love making continues. If my lover will just hold onto my cock or take it in her mouth and stroke and play with it while I take her higher and higher I do not want anymore from sex. Again I strive for a spiritual as well as physical connection with her. This can't be found, IMO, unless you and your partner are truly in love. A tremendous song about this is 'The Garden Is Open' by the Fugs. It is hard to find but it is a lovely tribute to cunnilingus. Worth looking for. I believe their music has been re-released and is available.
I LOVE to eat pussy!!! Her pleasure = my pleasure, PLUS I love feeling of all that soft silky womanliness with my mouth and tongue. It is too fun!!!!!! [Yo, GitmoDave! Finger Lakes are beautiful!! Grew up outsiide of Rochester, spent lotsa time there (esp Keuka) when I was a lot younger. Some great memories!]
my partner of nearly 8 years has never gone down on me. he says pussy is ugly and it repulses him. hes been like this with all his other gfs aswell. he wont use his fingers on me either, maybe once or twice for about 30 seconds. he wont let me use sex toys either. im afraid to masterbate to often incase he caught me. hes just highly embarassed by most things sexual. maybe its our age difference, im 27 and hes 47. im a highly sexual person and im soooo fucking frustrated by it all. the fucking worst thing is that i really do love him and dont think i could leave. maybe i should have an affair! lol! since my guy has never made me come.
Im sorry to hear about this i think u shouldnt be afraid to masterbate its to satisfy ur needs after hes never made u come.And i think going down on a wonman is awsome i personally love it. Oblivion if u need any help let me know.
at his age, you would think that he would be more comfortable with his sexuality. I can't believe that you have never had an orgasm with him.
thanks milflover i'll be flying to texas asap! lol! i have decided enough is enough though and broached the subject yesterday after posting on here. he's listened to how i feel and is prepared to give it a go. i said we would try flavoured lubes so he doesnt need to taste me, so thats a good thing at least. i shall let yo know how it goes. coz i dont think hes ever done it before. patience is a vertue yeah and 8 yrs is a long time! lol!
oblivion i ...i feel your pain over here in the USA. different however. both my fiancee and i love going down on each other as one form of our love making. both of us, however, are an-orgasmic and an-ejaculatory ( this part is by far more frustrating for me than it is for her). we can cum in masturbation and do urge each other, in private or together, to masturbate. your guy has a serious problem and need psychiatric help. i feel sorry for a man in this day and age that is so sexually regressive. i understand that you love him, but YOU must keep in mind that we are all responsible for our own pleasures and happiness in this life, not other people. we make ourselves happy, mad etc., no one can control our emotions. it is our perceptions others actions that controls us. give your self permission for pleasure. masturbate ! masturbate openly and often. if your guy really loves you and is deserving of you, he will do everything in his power to please you. he will go down on you as often as you like. you will not have to seek the attentions of strangers outside of your home. hey! now a days that can be dangerous, no matter where you live! LIKEWISE now you must pay attention to all of his needs and wants. if he wants head, go on and do it, just be sure YOU aren't neglected later on. as far as taste of discharge goes (boy that sounds official doesn't it) diet controls that. eat plenty of fruits and vegies. and both his and your cum will taste great. but, if all else does fail, remember the advice about tiying him up, he he. Please, let me know what happens, O K ? God bless you both. billys1--->TSR # 883-214-940 counselguy@earthlink.net