Going down on a woman

I suppose..although the inquisitiveness I’m sure has captured her interest at some point wondering the sensation she feels during anytime of self exploration, bathing etc. Great job of guiding your wife though oral.;-)

 

When I was married I used to do that for my wife quite a bit. She loved it. I really took the time for her, in some ways hoping that it would be reciprocated with a blowjob. They rarely happened. But I got good at finding the Gspot, and stimulating her until she came. I then had learnt the skill. When we spilt up, I did the same for other girls and they loved it too.

My now fiancé does like it but she is very nervous about hygiene. In terms of her smelling etc, i have never had a problem with her like that before as she is always clean and smells great when we do. However she is happier sucking me off and would rather that. So i haven't been down on her for ages.

However I have been down on a girl years ago who was a bit smelly. I knew not all pussies smelt like that as i had a few others that were nice, so it only put me off her. But if that was my only experience to go from, i would have concluded that pussies are not so good for oral. Maybe thats why some people are not so into it.

My ex wife was not keen on blowjobs mainly because her ex boyfriend was very rough with her and made her gag quite forcefully. I understand that but i was never going to hurt her like that, yet she very rarely sucked my cock. It was very reserved if she did. Our previous experience is very important to how we go about our future sexual endeavours.

 

I love women with huge clits! I’ll eat that pussy all night!

 

i can't get enough of it i eat my gfs pussy any chance i get, i don't stop until she cums too

 

I love eating pussy. I am 61 and have been doing so since my lates teens. Cannot count the number of women I have eaten. Love it and I am happy they do too

 

Getting her hotter and wetter eating her out before fucking her ismore fun for everyone!

 

Yes indeed!!

 

i'm 35, i've enjoyed eating pussy for as long as i can remember but i've met countless women who had never had a guy go down on them, also know many men who won't eat pussy cause its "submissive" which is just stupid cause in my opinion/experience, if you can eat good pussy you're balls are going to be drained at all times

 

So true!

 

As older man I agree! A learned art in time helps!!

 

I've had three chats in my time with women who either had not experienced the receipt of oral or who thought it was not very good.
One was a friend of an FB; one was an ex-wife of a male friend of mine; one was a work colleague.

I obliged them all. I obliged them all several times each.
They all liked it and I felt really good as I love to 'give'.
Pretty much; if any woman were to ask me to go down on her or even just to masturbate her, I would love to do it for them.

 

Art woman that ask, I’m there! Of course she has to be disease free, clean and trustworthy!

 

That’s a gentleman!!

 

Well, thank you Sailor.
Those things happened a long time ago (late 90s and early 2000s).
I realized only today that I may have found another one, just last week.

I chatted with a friend of a friend last week and explained that with the heat, I was only wearing my shorts because I was in public (the shop where she works). I said they would be off as soon as I get home.
She said "You're just right".
I asked her; if she were to call down to my house, would she be embarrassed or feel awkward if I stripped and she said "No"; that she'd quite like it if I did. I asked her if she would join me and she said probably.
It was too public to whet her appetite (by lowering my shorts) and I was really tired.

I explained I'd been working until 5am and she said she'd like to help me with that or we could work something else out.
I couldn't work out what she meant and thought I had misheard her. How could she help me with work(?) so I didn't follow on.
Then earlier today I thought/wondered/still think, she may have thought I said I was wanking until 5am. I'm quite softly spoken especially when talking about naughty stuff.
If that's what she heard, her response would make more sense.

So, I'm going to go to her shop tomorrow to see what may happen next.

It's been a long time since.

 

Wonderful! Keep us posted!!

 

A womans vagina is the worlds best at self cleaning. It is usually nice and fresh even with poor hygiene. If there is an odor that isn't nice smelling there is something wrong as in some kind of infection which needs a doctors attention. I do believe one reason our sense of smell is located near our mouth is to avoid a pussy that would be bad for us to eat. Of the many pussies I have had my face near less than a handful have turned me away by their odor. Mostly when I find a pussy that is willing to have my cock in it is also willing to have my tongue in it too. So if the pussy owner is willing to avail the pussy for a taste test I am more than willing to oblige. If the taste test is done right at some point the taste turns sweet. It is what is called in ancient times "The Nectar Of The Gods" or a really delicious drink.

 

My wife has vaginismus and a lack of interest in the in and out of sex. We only have oral, (working on fixing that) meanwhile, one thing she does like is being licked out and having her clit sucked. She hangs on to my legs and strains long sighs of pleasure. It borders on too intense. I plan on doing it a lot until more activities are on the menu.

 

There's a lot more to sexual pleasure than fucking as you are accidentally finding out. For me; I get more from those other things than from penetrative sex and giving oral is just one of those other things.
So, if it's bordering on too intense for her, be even more gentle with your tongue or fingers so you don't burst her desire to allow you to enjoy oral.

Try to lick her elsewhere than directly on her clitoris, which can be waaaaaay to sensitive especially at beginning. Between her inner and outer labia, up and down (assuming she's on her back) and between her vagina and her clitoris, within the inner labia.
Those can work well to raise her arousal and then, when you lick her clitoris, try to use the middle of your tongue, the area where some people get a piercing, rather than using the tip of your tongue.
And yep, as she gets aroused, try a gentle prolonged stroke of the front wall of her vagina about 2 inches in.
It can be a small area that feels a little rough/textured differently, in comparison with the rest of her vaginal wall. (That's her g-spot).
And when I suggest, prolonged stroke, I mean without a time limit. As if you are ( dare I say it ), bored and you're whiling away the time. (I'm never bored but that was the best way I could describe it).

Let it go on for as long as she enjoys it as you lick all around her pussy, avoiding her clitoris in the beginning.
If she tells you to make her cum, then use the middle of your tongue as described, on her clit, whilst you continue to use your fingers on her g-spot. (if she likes it).

(I open my mouth and place my lips around her outer labia. (not your wife, I mean my GF/FB as relevant lol). Her clit is roughly in the middle of my circular lip-labia contact 'circle'. My bottom lips is just above her vagina so I can slip my fingers in and my top lip if on her pubic mound just above her outer labia.)

That has made it ideal for several women who enjoyed the middle of my tongue on their clitoris when the time was right for them.

I'm not (as my Gran would have said) telling you how to suck eggs. I'm suggesting something in the hope it makes it better for both of you, so she continues to enjoy it - maybe even more - and she might even let you slip inside if her vaginismus were to recede. So, I suppose I'm just suggesting how to suck pussy (the way I do it) lol.

B

 

Yes thanks. I will go a little less intense next time. She sure hung on in the 69 position and couldn't do anything to me. Too intense. Too much of a good thing if I'm not careful.

 

I am not a real fan of 69.
I think it's much better (and access is better to) to lay her on her back and go down. Devoting time to her, without interruption from feelings in your cock, whether caused by her or not.
Then, if/when she's ready, she can suck you.

Those I have played with have had a better orgasm from me going down from when we did 69. And I enjoyed it more too because I could really get at their lips, vagina and clitoris better.