I'm a little obsessed with the married man who isn't getting enough at home. I experienced it and it pushed me to go looking. I think about this quite often. If I am shopping at the grocery store, and I pass in an aisle as another guy, I imagine admit I will look him over and my mind wanders to think about what his life is like - is he getting enough? How long has it been since he's had a blow job? And if our eyes meet, I try to read his eyes... Usually they look away quickly - so that's that. I was talking with a friend - single gay guys get a lot more sex than married straight guys, we reasoned. We don't have scientific proof, but I think it is probably closer to true.
i recall reading this a little while back and remember thinking .. yes there is heaps of married guys that are not .. recently chatting with a work colleague he was sharing about the lack of sex with his wife and i recalled this forum comments .. so i asked if he would ever consider letting another guy suck his cock .. he looked at me knowing i am married .. and said do you know someone .. to which i replied i would .. remember thinking at the time this could go badly .. he agreed we met at his home when his family was away .. afterwards he said his wife had never sucked his cock .. we haven't discussed that day again
I love this topic. I once had a mentor who was a married man with children. We were having lunch one day and we got onto the topic of dating since his son was my age. I mentioned that I was not serious with anyone but applauded him for having being married for a number of years. The topic of sex came up. Mind you, I’m a very direct person. I asked if he enjoyed sex (I do). He said yes, but they were no longer intimate and it seemed that he was more horny the older he got. I told him that I understood and mentioned that I favored men sexually. His eyes lit up, but he was suddenly disappointed because he figured I’d be into guys my age. I told him I was attracted to older men. He started asked a lot of questions about my experiences. I told him about a few of them which made him squeeze his legs together as if he were trying to hide his erection. I mentioned my oral fixation for men who don’t get the pleasure of a bj. He was honest that his wife did not like to give him bjs. We finished lunch. He asked if I was interested in joining him if we got a hotel room. I ended up sucking him off. His response was, “I never knew someone could blow me into next week.” We became very close as mentor and mentee. He still keeps in touch regarding my career and sometimes jokes about our encounters and hints at it happening again.
my work colleague approached me today saying his wife and family would be away this weekend .. seems someone enjoyed having his cock sucked
Alright... well, I hope you know we will be looking for a report back... some of us enjoy "the stories". No disrespect meant for your co-worker, or you... just want to know how it went and what you're thinking about it all. There is a young man who just started working at my company a few months ago... there is something about him. In the summer, our dress code allows for shorts - and let me tell you, his legs are long and lean, and go all the way up to his ass. I can't stop looking at him. I am much older than he is - and I get no vibes from him - but I would break all the rules if he made a pass at me. Work hook-ups probably happen more than any of us know - yet they are considered taboo... Good luck, Keen!
i will certainly report back .. i enjoy sharing experiences and enjoy reading of others... i actually thought it was a once off thing , so i was surprised and excited.
talk about checking guys out when out .. recall one time my wife and i were at the markets walking along holding hands looking at the stalls ..when i saw 2 guys walking towards us .. thought now they are a couple and what caught my attention was what I like .. bear types , trimmed beards , groomed ( JUST LIKE ME LOL ) .. as we are walking towards each other I'm checking them out .. so hot to me .. looking at the bulge and imagining a nice cut cock .. looked to his mate and thought the same .. looked up and made eye contact with one .. we smiled at each other , looked over to his mate was checking me out which i felt was a turn on .. he looked up .. they both smiled and we all kept walking with me still holding my wife's hand
I have never, never ever heard of a married man getting too much or even enough at home....just enough to keep that string tight..... "Say, Bill, I just can't keep up with that wife of mine... sex sex sex, my cock hurts....that's all she ever thinks about, it's so annoying, so I just ignore her and maybe she'll calm down...
I actually know someone whose husband can't keep up with her high sex drive, complains to her about it! Unfortunately, she's 'friend zoned' me when I offered to help her out, so to speak. Yet she also has a boyfriend. I also think it's because I'm still in my sexless marriage with a non approving wife? Ie, my wife doesn't want to fuck me, yet she doesn't want me fucking anybody else who does? Bummer about my friend, as she'd be fun, energetic, and likes bi guys!
Well, maybe it's time to try it out. Then you can decide if having sex with her is worth losing half your shit in the divorce.
Well, Ray........I think we should just be friends.....but it's ok if you come over to move the refrigerator while I tease you with my skimpy shorts, right?
I used to look at all of the other husband following their wives around the mall and wonder if they would be open to it. Better than nothing.
I could never offer to any of my friends I wouldn’t want them to know I’m bi. I do check guys out at the store from time to time but never flirted. Haven’t been thst brave yet. For sex or bjs stick to dating sites. Honestly I’m not attracted to any of my friends it would be too weird for me . I guess it’s like when I guy asks a friend that’s a girl for sex or bjs I get it now how they feel.