Girls,why is that...

I have high maintenance friends, and they are cool. Although at our age it starts to involve duct tape.. I like hanging out with them and sometimes I let them doll me up when we go out. (no make up or duct tape for me though). I do wear shorter skirts or tight jeans, and a club shirt then. The attention is fun.. Since I don't pick up guys in bars I just want them to want me. I know that's a little sick. But it's very flattering when the 30 yr olds keep dragging you to the dance floor.. But on normal day I'm a midi length skirt, pretty top, hiking boots, no make up, kida chick..

 

You started a thread about how womyn want to impress men with appearances, Yet you want us to know you have a 12 inch penis? LOL (Maybe I just have a dirty mind, but what else does that "12 inch" mean?)

 

no worries ,my first post was a bit full on.personally id want a girl that doesnt give a fuck what men think about the way she looks apart from the ones she genuinly likes,id like it if all girls didnt give a fuck,i mean it must take up alot of time, effort and worry.

 

ive grown abit since then, im now 14 and 3/4 inchs

 

first, why the use of the word "pretty"? although "pretty" can imply superficiality (as in "pretty ideals") it also implies a sense of delicate grace. have fuck-me boots and a tube top ever been considered pretty? arousing, sexy, and hot, sure... but pretty? now don't get me wrong, i'm not implying that women should be completely covered and that ribbons and lace a pretty girl make... "pretty" also implies innocence, as young girls are pretty, and women are beautiful. painted faces isn't something that implies youth, and heels and thongs require a sense of age, as young girls are generally not given thongs and heels (with the exception of beauty pagents and ridiculous crap). "pretty" also implies something more personal and intimate, it is an external manifestation of something internal. 'pretty' refers to a mischevious sparkle in someones eyes, or a grin. you can't paint your face to be pretty... unless you're really good at faking confidance (although maybe that's what makeup is?). you will probably never exchange words with 80% of the women you oggle, thus eliminating that personal aspect. so those women are not pretty. pretty does not mean someone with no self-respect or no confidance. if you find shallow women sexually arousing, that sounds like more of a personal problem. sure, you can be attracted to someone based on their looks, but once you realize what went into looking that way, and what goes on in the mind of that woman, how can you still find that attractive and arousing? don't get cranky at the women for doing their thing (though i agree that it is silly of them) question yourself, and why you find uncomfortable women stimulating.

i just wanted to say that, because there is a difference between being pretty and painting your face, baring your tits, and wearing the shortest skirt in town. dressing like a hooker is not pretty. likewise, someone can go without makeup and be pretty. some people responded saying things about being 'pretty' but i'm not sure if the word is being used consistantly throughout this thread.

so that said, i do not wear make up. i do not wear uncomfortable clothes, nor do i wear heels. actually, my skirts all extend below the knee. and although i eat vegetarian, it is not for weight reasons, let alone obsession. but you know what, i'm pretty... and beautiful, and dare i say, sexually arousing. i get stares and smiles without dangling my ass-cheeks out of my skirt, or putting on make up. you can be pretty instantly, it doesn't take time to "get pretty." excuse me if i'm quoting mr. rogers, but all it takes to "get pretty" is to put on a smile, so why is that a bad thing? (i understand baring your boobs is different, but then again it's not pretty, so why is getting pretty bad? smiles are good!)

there's an awful lot of negativity coming from carsick towards women who want attention, but i don't think he sees the double standard on his end for wanting to give them that attention. and if you find yourself attracted to shallow women, or women who don't have confidance, that is your problem, not theirs! i give my attention to those who radiate joy and intelligence, because those people are just automatically gorgeous and fascinating. i'd rather look at someone kind than someone plastic... isn't finding plastic desirable just as bad as desiring to be plastic?

HA! right on, maggie!

 

keeping in mind i dont have a dictionary next to me and i wasnt that well educated,you get the jist of what i was trying to say. ill edit this post later because ive gotta go to work in 5 mins and that 12 inch thing,ITS TRUE ,my penis WAS that big.

 

"if i was a girl id wear T-shirts and skirts that go below the knee"


ok, I have issues with this comment. why should women cover themselves? my boyfriend often makes comments when i wear a low cut shirt, or a tank top...while he can parade around shirtless. most times, i wear those shirts when its hot outside...want to know why? because ITS HOT OUTSIDE! plus the fact that most of my weekdays are spent working in a sweaty factory....sorry kid, im not wearing a bulky tshirt and long pants. and im not going to be ashamed of my body and cover it up at all times to please a perverted society that thinks im dressing "provocative" to please men, which by the way, i dont. perhaps we can put some of the blame on the people who label the women you are describing as "whores" or "sluts".

 

You must have a hard time (har har) finding pants.......as well as condoms.

 

And it's not like it only applies to girls. Especially in the weight department. I just got over being anorexic and I know a number of guys who still are because that's the way society supposedly wants us to look.

 

Speaking for Christianity here, have you read the bible? quote-
Matthew 6:13 25 "Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is life not more than food and the body more than clothing?"
Christianity does not "not allow" women to have "any kind of social status", where did that come from? It has nothing to do with that, Christianity is a relationship with God.
And Christianity isn't responsible for girls worrying about their looks, it takes these worries away from them, and puts things in perspective.
I buy clothes that I think look good (not tacky, very important), wear makeup most of the time, and have a strong interest in beauty, but I do these things because I love them. I'm not insecure or want attention, God gives me everything I need. It's not society that causes young girls to wear makeup, short skirts etc, it's because of their own human nature. Likewise it's guys' natures to check girls out.
I am a hippy, but I follow my own heart, I don't do typical hippy things just to be one.

 

kylie minogue lyrics

"a girls gotta SUFFER for fashion,she knows what her body can do,she finds a man and she makes it her passion"

 

I think women can wear whatever they want as long as it's legal. Besides, both men and women wear and do things that they feel will make them more attractive to each other.

Whay do guys work out?

Why do guys buy cool cars?

Why do guys wear certain styles of clothes?

Why do guys get jobs that pay a certain amount or have a certain status?

Why do guys wear cologne?

Why do guys even bother bathing?

For the women these things can attract.

 

Oh yeah,as far as women's weight. I prefer curvy women myself. I like a woman who actually has a body ;-)

 

A. because at times the weather calls for more skin to be shown. or I have no problem showing my confidence. I don't wear revealing clothes to be an attention whoe, I do it because I'm not ashamed of how I look and have no problem showing that to the world.

B. Only wear make up on special occasions... sometimes it's fun to play up on features. 90-95% of the time though, I'm make up less

C. See A. Plus I have long legs and longer skirts make my short size shorter (5'3")

D. I'm obsessed with trying to gain a few pounds. I flucuate from 90-100 lbs and I want to have a little bit more if I was to get sick or something. Last time I had pnemonia I feel from 90 lbs to 75 lbs. And I was 16.

 

Wow..i don't know where to begin my reply


first off..u r making a generalization based off the girls in you area..u r 17 and haven't traveled the world..the girls in you high school world may be that way..and i agree many women are obsessed w/ looking a specific way..but i think for the most part...most women are not really concerned...we are not so vain to think everyone is watching us..lol i think blaming society is the easy way out...society doesn't create these obsessions...people do...it comes down to having a mind of ur own and doing what is right for u regardless of what is widely accepted...


and i like how u say if u were a girl u'd wear long skirts and t-shirts...first off..shorter girls can wear shorter skirts to make them look taller, and taller girls can wear longer skirts...and t-shirts are so unstructured and have no tayloring..who wants to wear something like that out to a fancy supper ??


I know so many mama's in my age range that are just like me...as well as many mama's here on the forums..(i'd say it's half and half) mama's who wear no make up, dress for beauty and comfort, don't comb thier hair, don't shave their legs or pits.all natural is the way too go..

although , i am not saying there is anything wrong w/ feeling beautiful..it comes down to accepting yourself for who u are and basking in the joy of life!

 

Yes..that is what i thought too.i thought this kid is wondering why women want to impress men..and yet he is trying to impress whomever w/ his supposed 12 inch penis.

and i'm sure he may claim that it means something else..but .. that's where everyones mind drifts when they read that..

 

yes. blame society.

 

i would rather live in the nearist forest and eat boiled rat meat and drink river water than put up with these surroundings, glad i dont live in land of the cheese not that england much better, our climate means our "americain dream" cant be complete

and im glad my surroundings brought me up to not think like that

 

do you really think i get a buzz from telling i have a massive dick,if anything it shows im not taking my self so seriously because in reality i have nothing to boast about.......i thought it was obvious but i understand why youd think that with all the tosas in here lately

 

When I was younger, I showed my stuff to a degree.. shorts,minis, halters, bikinis,.. No makeup though.. My husband liked me to look sexy, but not trashy.. Just because you look sexy doesn't mean you are loose... Some people just look sexy and can't help it..