girls that want babys and ones that dont

Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by warlock, Nov 13, 2005.

  1. lulla

    lulla Member

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    :agree: I could say i'm still thinking about that but the thruth is - i don't want no kids and i am pretty sure that never will. I just can't stand all this educating thing and would probably make my children very not-fiting-in in society and would make them like me - pretty irresponsible and unuseful for any job. :D
     
  2. wanderin_blues

    wanderin_blues Banned

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    i cant wait to have kids! i hope i will soon be at a place in my life when i can get pregnant. first i need to go to college and travel and then settle down a little. oh and find a man haha
     
  3. LittleRedOne

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    I probably want to have a kid.... WAY far in the future! I've got a lot of my life to live yet though; sixthform, university, a career in acting (hopefully), getting married... I'm not having a baby until me & my partner have got a nice house, car, stable income etc, because I don't want to bring a child into the world and not be able to give them a secure life and upbringing.
     
  4. brainstew

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    Personally, I prefer animals to children, so I'm going to stick to that.
     
  5. Loveminx

    Loveminx Sports Racer

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    me too. ^_^
     
  6. Lady Neko

    Lady Neko Member

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    people tell me i am still young and should think about it but to be honest i really do not want kids. i love kids! but they are not for me. i have friends and family with children who i can spoil rotten. ^_^
     
  7. Strange Days

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    I guess I'll probably have kids. I'd love to adopt, maybe have one of my own, I don't know. I'm only 14, so I really don't know...My parents didn't have me, their only child, until they were 37, so I know that there isn't any rush for me either. I know that I want to do a lot of living before thinking of having any kids.
     
  8. Lady Neko

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    yeah. i have two cats who are my kids. the youngest one is a cry baby, but i can deal with her. lol!
     
  9. Miss_Beatle

    Miss_Beatle Beatlemaniac

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    I want 2 boys, and a girl.

    1. Julian Winston
    2. Adrian Michael
    3. Semolina Faith

    Yea, i've given it some thought.
     
  10. Loveminx

    Loveminx Sports Racer

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    If I ever have a girl, I'll name her Lily Ann
    (my moms name is anna and my middle name is anna...)

    and the boy, Jonathan Kurt
    (my deceased dad's name is john...my bf and his brother both used their middle names so I expect to call the kid kurt...and I love kurt vonnegut and kurt cobain)

    I had a dream I had a baby and named her Clementine... :)
     
  11. DirtyBongAlexa

    DirtyBongAlexa Member

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    i wouldnt mind havinga kid but i think pregnancy is disgusting lol
     
  12. knotdirty

    knotdirty Over the Rainbow

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    Nope.

    I keep having dreams that I have a baby though...I always wake up and have a good hard think. It's just shocking...kind of disturbing. hum.
     
  13. The_Walrus

    The_Walrus Sgt. Pepper

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    I don't want children.
     
  14. ItzJessI3itch

    ItzJessI3itch Banned

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    I love my boys to death, they can be assholes, but I wouldn't change my mind about havening them.
     
  15. enigmatic_void

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    i don`t understand when people say they haven`t found who they are, i knew fully at 15. anyway, i`ve never wanted kids, and never will. i don`t care what anyone says, it will not change. i don`t feel a void over it, i don`t have bitter family issues, just never had the whole family instinct.
     
  16. Rue Takedo

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    I'm on the fence. Got out of an emotionally abusive relationship 3.5 months ago, am currently in open polyamorous triad with Drake and Fenikkusu. Both of them have expressed the idea of having kids at some point in their lives. I don't think it's a bad idea, but we know that none of us are emotionally/mentally/financially ready yet, and we don't have a place of our own currently.

    Personally, I'd also like to adopt and/or be a foster parent, regardless of if I do end up having bio-hatchlings. It isn't fair to bring a soul into this already overburdened world, in my opinion, without also trying to shelter another who is already here, through no fault of their own, but is without proper care and support. I'm not judging anyone who has decided not to adopt/foster; that's your business and I applaud you for at least taking the time and resources to adequately raise and supervise the kids you already have. Thank you!! There are not enough parents who bother to do so.
     
  17. kjhippielove88

    kjhippielove88 color + rhyme

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    ok thats just weird. i have two cousins named julian and adrian :eek:

    i definitely want to have kids... at least 3. lol i already have names picked out for the most part. ive always been that girl who thought about her wedding dress when she was 7. its just who i am. i cant wait to have a family and begin that phase of my life
     
  18. karinmom

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    I have 2 girls and I want another baby:)
     
  19. MaccaByrd

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    That's because strangers on the street are a-holes. Babies are like animals... essentially.

    I want one. But I'm not ready.
     
  20. Glowstick

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    To have children or to not... Such a personal choice, for me children would be a bad thing considering my life style, and I just don't see that being something in my future for many other reasons.
     

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