Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

Huh? What part didn't make sense to you? It's perfectly clear.

 

you're a [attractive] girl with boobs.

and for the record I'm pretty pleasant to friends & strangers regardless.

 

Well, I'm a guy, and I have plenty of self-respect, and I give my girl my consent to have a lover, and yes, he does have a huge cock.

I wasn't sure about replying to this thread, but then I thought....What the hell.

My girl and I have a very loving, affectionate relationship. I have never loved anyone as much as her, and I know she feels the same way about me. Like Rachel85, my girl has a Son who I am a father too.

The main reason that my girl has a lover is because her sex drive is much higher than mine, and I can't keep up with her. Also like Rachel's & Jane's men, I cannot last, and I'm not well endowed. I have never had a girlfriend who has such an appetite for sex like my girl has. The fact that I don't have the same appetite, and also do not last, was very frustrating for her.

Unlike every guy on this website, I do not have a problem admitting that I'm not a stud, although I do enjoy sex. My girl is a nymph, and I cannot bring out the best in her when it comes to fucking, she also has kinky BDSM needs which I don't want to meet! Her lover is a bull, and is also her dom when it comes to BDSM. They are free to see each other if and when they wish. My girl works part time, and her lover works nights, so they meet during the day when the boy is at school. This works well because it means that the time they spend together does not effect our time. She does not love him.

I have no problem with this! I love her and want her to be happy. She is a very sexual person, and I can't satisfy her fully, so she has someone that can. We do have a loving sexual relationship though, and we are very close.

I would say that our relationship is even more intense and loving since she took a lover. It also takes the pressure off of me. He gives her what she needs and sends her back to me a very relaxed, satisfied, fulfilled and happy girl. It's great! It may not be the 'norm' but it works for us.

I think you need to be a very confident Man to make this work. You also need a lot of faith in your relationship. I am, and I do!

The guys on here saying that the girls should just tell their men what they
want.................Well, it's not that easy. I would love my girl to be able to ride my dick for as long as she needs too, but it's just not possible. I don't have the ability. I do not want to tie her up or spank her. I don't like it. She does not want me to do things I don't like, but it's not right that she goes unfufilled. That's why she has a lover. She would not do it if I withdrew my consent. I have no plans on doing that.

The only rule we have is that her tummy does not swell from his seed, other than that we have a great time together, and both of us have never been as happy as we are now! Sex is only part of a relationship, there is a lot more to love than that. My girl and I love each other.

I don't see why a girl can't take a lover if her guys needs don't match her own, and just because a guy does not have a big long lasting cock, doesn't mean he is not a man.

 

Wow... just wow. This is exactly what I was saying that I just don't understand with some guys. I got no issue with anyone wanting to share their wife/gf/bf, etc. But I just can't get over this mentality from people who feel they can't handle their own partner sexually. I mean shit! Maybe it's the competitor in me, but even if I felt a girl was too much for me to handle on my own sexually (which I don't see happening unless I'm still fucking 20yr olds when I'm 80), I damn sure would never give up and let her know it. If I couldn't fuck the shit out of her like she wanted, I'd sure as hell die trying!

If I decided to share my partner, I'd be doing it to "enhance" our sexual relationship, not because I couldn't keep up with or handle her/him. It makes me wonder how some guys ever accomplish anything in life, much less in their relationships, with such a "why even try" attitude.

 

Jacob, I think that is so cute and adorable. You must love your girl so much, she is lucky to have you. I bet you have a great relationship.

I don't want another man, but if I ever do, my man would have to know about it, and be cool with it like you are.

 

Why would you want to be with a woman who wants or needs more than you can giver her to the extent that she needs another sex partner?

I guess I'm lucky. I'm a little too much for my wife sexually. My sex drive is higher and my cock is more than big enough, in fact my wife says it starts to hurt if I bang her too long.

I have enough sexual desire that I could easily take on another woman or two, but I would never do it for so many reasons. My wife knows my sex drive is higher than hers and unless she is ill or extremely tired she rarely says no to my me, even if it means snuggling next to me while I jerk off and putting her mouth on my cock right before I cum. If all that is not enough I can always jerk off to some porn.

I know if the roles were reversed and my wife wanted more than I could give her I would please her without needing an orgasm or maybe she would get some toys but having other partners is nothing either one of us would ever dream of.

There is so much more to a relationship than sex but the sex in a relationship needs to be fulfilling for both partners. Yes, I could take more than I get from my wife, but what I get from her is so wonderful that I would never want something else.

God has blessed me as a man. I am tall (6'3"), intelligent, outspoken and have 7 3/4 inches of thick, straight, uncut cock. These factors give me confidence despite the fact that I am not rich, very average looking, have chronic health problems and suffer from depression. We all have way more going for us than we think.


If your arrangement works for you I am glad you are at peace with it but I am sad and feel sorry for you. I'm sure there are women who would be completely satisfied by you so you shouldn't feel you are inferior or not worthy.

 

Reading your posts you do come across as someone who is a touch boastful, and competitive about sex. I'm not! I do not view it as a competition or some kind of sport, or something you have to be number 1 at! Maybe you are a stud like my girls lover, if so........good for you. The thing you have to understand though is, not everyone is the same. I could also convince myself that I was number 1, I know that I'm not though, and have enough self-esteem and confidence to admit it.

I'm not sure what sex has to do with "accomplishing anything in life?" For example....Sex has nothing to do with my choice of profession, and how successful I am in it. The two things are not related in any way, are they?

It is not a question of a "why even try" attitude! I like to play golf, I enjoy it, and I'm not bad. I'm never going to be Tiger Woods though, and I know it. I have a great relationship with my girl.

 

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Thank you Rachel. Yes, I love her and The Boy more than I could ever say. We do have the best relationship, although I admit, some may find it to be unconventional. It works perfectly for us though.:love:

 

No my best lover was a man named tedd he gave the best head

 

Points taken. You say your girl is a sexual athlete. I consider myself the same. I understand that not everyone can be (or even wants to be) an all pro sex athlete. But it's not about competition or being number 1, it's about satisfying your partner. I just have a hard time understanding why someone wouldn't want to do everything in their power to satisfy their girl sexually.

You're basically saying, "I know I can't do it, so why even bother trying." I'll just let her find another guy that can do the job that I can't or don't want to fulfill sexually. To me, that attitude comes off as very passive and dare I say weak! This is why I made the life comparison, because it makes me wonder if you (or others with the same mindset) are like this in all aspects of your life.

It's like saying, why be ambitious and try and accomplish anything significant in life? I'll get a regular education, take a regular job, have regular, vanilla type sex... basically never try to excel at anything because I either feel I "can't" do something or don't want to put in the necessary work to accomplish it.

My mentality is the polar opposite of yours. I love when people try to tell me I "can't" do something. Makes me want to do it all that much more. If I gave up, never tried, or listened to everyone who ever told me what I can't do, I would've never accomplished half the things I did in my life thus far. So that's why I have a hard time wrapping my head around why a young healthy male needs a second cock to satisfy their own wife sexually. I feel if you can't satisfy your own wife sexually, then you probably shouldn't be with her to begin with. But that's a whole other discussion for another thread.

 

Not only can I see why he shouldn't be with her but why should she be with him? She gets the best of both worlds, a stable, safe, comfortable man at home and a big cock somewhere else. Sounds like she gets everything and gives up nothing.

To me the world is a cruel, hostile place. I prefer the comfort of my own home with my wife, my kids, my beer fridge and my liquor shelves, my 60" TV, my Central Air, my swimming pool and my lazy boy chair. I love looking at my wife sitting next to me with her sweet innocent face, her great big boobs and her chubby tummy while she plays on her iphone and thinking how comfortable, how secure, how stable it all is. If either one of us had another partner it would destroy all of that with the jealousy, the suspicion the anxiety, the self doubt.

I love peace and quiet, no drama, no need for adrenalin rushes. To me the right kind of woman is a goddess; mysterious, life giving, nurturing. I look at my wife that way. I would never want to share her. She is all mine and I am all hers. I surrender to her, am faithful to her not because other women are undesirable but because I want my love for her to be pure, my flame to be intense, my devotion to be unwavering. Trust, respect, open communication, lying in bed, side by side, until death to us part.

 

mine was rick, he sucked the best dick.

i also had fun with rocky, who gave the best bukkake.

 

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Yes, my fiancee is the best lover I have had but it isn't entirely due to his skills in bed. What makes the most difference is that we both know a whole lot more about each other's needs and we have grown much more comfortable with expressing our needs. We're no longer shy about being very explicit with each other and with trying new things. As we have lost our inhibitions our sex together has gone from good to great to mind blowing. Yes, he is great in bed...but then so am I. It takes two to tango.

 

It's great that your bf loves you so much that he lets you do this. My bf is the nice guy type, he is lovely. He is also open minded, so yes I could convince him that we should have an open relationship. I don't want to though, I really could not cope with seeing the man I adore go with another girl, even if it was just sex. I do think it is an interesting subject though. For a guy to love his girl so much that he lets her have sex with another man because he knows he cant satisfy her. It is so cute, beautiful and loving.

I have not seen my ex for a long time and he does not see his Son. I have no wish to see him ever again. My son sees my bf as his Dad, and my bf sees him as his Son. They are very, very close.

 

@xxaru Don't be mad at me, but what Jacobklein85 said about your pic made me lol. Also I'm not sure why you participate in this thread? You seem to have seen it as nothing more than an opportunity to tell everyone how good you are in bed. Not the modest type are you. I'm sure your nice, so dont take this the wrong way, but all your boasting makes you come across as a bit of a dick. You should really try to stop!

 

You want to suggest that I'm "thick", yet you don't even have the mental capacity to grasp the point I was getting at. Sex was never a direct comparison to the success in other parts of life. It was the mentality you put towards satisfying your girl that was. You obviously can't seem to grasp that concept, so it makes no sense for me to waste my time trying to hold a conversation with someone who doesn't have the necessary acumen to respond to the matter at hand with any intelligence.

And I'm not surprised to see you checking out my pics. You were probably secretly jerking off while looking at them. I would expect no less from someone like you. When one has difficulty articulating their position on the matter at hand, they start looking for random straws to grasp at in order to try and uphold their position. Then when that doesn't work, they start trying to throw insults. As you certainly won't be learning to articulate your mindset anytime soon, I'll wait for the insults in your next post

I used myself only to try and make a point. I don't need to boast about my sex skills, nor do I really give a shit what you or anyone else in this thread "think" about me. I'm in this thread because I was trying to understand the mindset of people like Jaco who feel like they can't satisfy (or aren't enough for) their partners on their own. But apparently I was wrong in assuming that they had any ability what so ever to properly explain their positions, because they all seem to be so daft that they're unable to articulate their own mindset on the topic in a manner that can be properly comprehended.

So I would suggest you not even "try" to start with me. You seem like a nice girl, but you for one don't fit the profile of the guys/girls engaging in these activities and thus cannot speak to their mindsets or actions. So if I were you I would stay out of this. :cheers2:

 

you do seem to like to brag about your ability to fuck a women into a coma

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