Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

I can say cheers to that :cheers2:

 

I also say cheers to the Golden rule.

Also we're not all bad fx20736; and the upside is at least the recent youth in the past 5 years or so have been getting smarter about contraceptives compared to previous generations.

The best way to be there for your kids or anybody in general is to open a line of communication with them. Breakups, emotional hurt, all of that happen in lots of areas of like most famous of the two are love and career paths but I think what parents can do is to be aware, attentive but not paranoid, and most of all pragmatic.

I was told that whenever I got a compliment like a note or something I should save it and put it in a box, and I should go to that box on a bad day in the future. It does help.

 

I guess the thing that amazes me is the notion that a person can have sex without consequences, like sex is just another joy ride like bungee jumping or waterskiing.

there are always consequences to having sex with people that are relatively speaking, strangers; STD's, pregnancy, physical abuse, emotional distress, divorce,etc., etc., not to mention what could happen to children if a family breaks up.

the analogy is what you expect out of going to the movies. It's the difference between watching a big CGI filled story of aliens and cities being destroyed vs a powerful drama full of catharsis and redemption.

so, do you need to be entertained with the volume turned to 10 with constant novelty or do you want to be moved and uplifted by your experience?

 

I get what you're saying, and to a point I agree that risky behavior regarding sex CAN open you up to STD's and all of that mentioned above.

But keep in mind not every couple has children, that lots of people feel the STD/STI transmission rate, while true, is/was oversold as a fear tactic, and that lots of these couples do use a form of birth control.

And physical and emotional abuse doesn't necessarily happen.

Even on these forums I've seen lots of people who seem to at be smart about their behavior or generally fairly nice people.


What one person interprets as living on the edge, another would describe as living free. It's just not my place to judge.


At least in your parenting view though you seem to acknowledge that both girls and guys can be aggressors and your holding both your children to the same standard.

 

my man and i have been exploring the art of pleasuring each others bodies. i can attest that this is becoming the best sexual experience(s) i've had yet. we fucked in the moonlight once. people saw. we kept going. they watched a little, went on their way.
but last night was an ice cube extravaganza! woo! i'm keeping my hands on this man, he's pretty good at pleasing me. and he tells me i please him too- lets stay here and have fun

 

The golden rule got Jesus crucified.

The Golden rule gets you no pussy nor consistent friends.

The golden rule gets you no power or respect in this society.

Y'all suck.

 

Speak for yourself.

 

agreed. my life is pretty dandy, i'm a believer in the golden rule too

 

I really don't believe that my ex loved me, he was really rough whenever we had sex (he started being rough my third time with him, which was my third time ever) and didn't ever ask if I came or not. He didn't care.

My fiance is wonderful in bed. Somehow he can manage to be rough in a loving way. He can ram his dick in me really hard and then lean down and whisper "You're mine forever, honey" It's sweet. He's definitely the best lover.

 

attractive girl = different set of rules

 

you know, that's always bothered me. i have a boyfriend, and sometimes guys will chat me up at a party, then my guy will come up and kiss me or something along those lines, and suddenly this guy i was having a conversation with is no longer in talking, whatsoever. its bullshit. do i not have more to offer than being a female?

guys will straight up ignore me, knowing i'm not interested in having sex or a relationship with them. its fucked.

 

well sure, some guys don't care beyond sex. most of them aren't necessarily that shallow. but if you were actively trying to hit on a guy and he suddenly revealed that he was unavailable, you wouldn't be a little put off too?

but either way, my point was just that you always have the looks to fall back on even if your personality sucks, whereas most people don't have that advantage.

 

true, but it bothers me, the way i perceive the world and such. i just want to meet beautiful people, which i mean mentally more than physically. so even if i have hit on a guy, and realized he was unavailable, i didn't stop talking to him, sharing ideas and such.
yet that's whats happened to me. sucks that people don't peer beneath the surface.
i'm actually only now used to the idea of being attractive. i really grew into myself, i think. but shit, seems really mean to simply cut off all contact with someone because they have a boyfriend. i'm much more of a person than who i am dating. and since he lives so far, its not like i spend my time attached to him either. just. wah. /endwhine

 

Some girls don't want their bf hanging out with other girls, and some guys don't want their gf hanging out with other guys.

And when you're talking to a guy you just met and your bf walks over and kisses you in the middle of your convo, that's definitely going to be off putting to a lot of guys in that situation as they're going to feel like your bf is marking his territory right in front of them (making sure he understands to back the fuck off cause that's my girl). Perhaps that wasn't your bf's intention, but you'd be surprised how people would perceive that. Just saying.

 

point, i suppose. but even in situations where it simply became apparent i have a man, without him even being there. guess some people aren't interested in good ol conversation anymore.

good thing i have you guys

 

Guess those are the ones who aren't interested in being "just friends" with girls.

Well, even I must admit... the moment you stop sticking things up your bum I will be less interested too.

 

but why would i ever stop? @_@

 

Mmm, I was hoping you would say that

 

LOL, do you talk like that whilst you are wearing fishnets?

Guys out of your league ignore you becuase they know you are not interested in having sex or a relationship with them? Thats the reason they ignore you is it? It cant be the fishnets or the over protective boyfriend.

Theres a big difference between being objectified for looking hot compared to being objectified for looking easy

I'm not being prudesh, you can get away with wearing less and get better attention as long as it looks cool or classy. Run around in a bikini if you want, as long as its the right one, some of those tie up roman sandals, a gold arm bracelet or the right type of bling. Or hippy chic with flowers in her hair, a low cut, high rise summer dress with army boots.

Fishnets, knee high boots - they just say to them, get me drunk and I'll pass out in your bedroom and you'll be able to do whatever for 2 whole minutes

Umbrella dresses just make you look pregnant, Corset tops make you look 12 years old.

The most important accessory is the boyfriend, if its the kind of guy that does that thing where you get a smooch right in front of another guy you are talking to, like a little puppy dog thats peeing on a tree to mark his territory - it only ever means one thing

 

Dude, do any of your post ever make sense??