Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

I have been following along this thread as its been interesting and entertaining....I've not felt the need to participate as really I have no opinion on Jacobs relationship and what adults do in their own relationships is up to them and not for others to judge (that is my oponion), however, THIS:

Has compelled me to jump in for a moment. Do you seriously think some women want jealousy and possessiveness in a partner?? I would be shocked if some do....not in a healthy loving relationship....possessivness and jealousy have no place in love. And any woman that says this is an attractive quality likely has some serious self esteem issues.

 

what do you think jealous and possessive mean?

 

That's what "jealous" and "possessive" mean.

Neither of them are positive or desirable traits.

 

What this says.... :iagree:

 

by those definitions I am neither.

 

Then you're not using the right words at all.

 

I didn't use them, you did.

I am very supportive of my wife and always have been. I proofed her papers, cooked dinners, did the housework, etc. when she went back for 2 Master's Degrees. I have never resented the fact that she makes way more money than me or that she has had tremendous professional success nor do I interfere with the many friendships she has.

my only thing is I don't want her hanging out with other men. It's just the way I am. It's not that I don't trust her, but I think my wife is one in a million and I don't want to deal with some jerk trying to complicate things by some deceptive backstabbing in an attempt to take what I have.

 

If I'm not mistaken, you're the one who used it first. You said something way earlier in this thread about women wanting "a jealous man".

 

who can remember? this thread is so big now. I will tell you that you won't find many men who are bigger champions of female equality, I just don't like men getting near my women, it is a primal visceral reaction that comes naturally, I have always been that way. I also never try and get chummy with married women or women who I know to be in committed relationships. There is zero point.

 

Can you guys believe this thread has gone on for 60 pages

 

So I understand where your coming from. But if any guy can make their girl cum over 8+ times and keep going either cumming themselves multiple times or not, you are at least GREAT lover to her and likely classified as GREAT to most women am I right? My girl says Im the best and her proof is that she has always had a problem from cumming from intercourse before me. She said this pretty early on one night and of course I proceed every time to give her 5+ orgasms through intercourse... My thing is i can keep going forever AND cum 4+ times most the time. I am amazing with hands and head and all the other kink and we are sexual animals together.

Not trying to boost my own ego or anything (me and my girl have an insane sexual connection/energy) but I am just pointing out one lover may be classified as GREAT by one individual but not another. I think you know you are a GREAT lover because of the intensity and energy you put into it but also realize that everyone is different as well so while you ARE a GREAT lover there will always be someone out there who has had something they like more, although you may never meet them.

Basically I am just trying to point out that if you (male) can make your SO cum multiple times (In my experience this is like at LEAST 3+ probably want it higher though like 5+) then you are GREAT lover to them. Dick size doesnt matter as much as being able to go for long time anyways. Yea I know there are size queens out there but most dicks that are very big will not work that great with most vagina... Average dick size fits the average vagina, this is how evolution works.

 

I've just read this thread and it had me in a fit of giggles!!!! I hope Jacob's partner appreciates how lucky she is, and treats him with love and respect.

 

Agree with you up untill I read the last paragraph. Dick size doesn't matter as much as being able to last long. It can be either/or that makes your lady cum 3 times plus. I personally can't last very long, especially sober. So knowing this from the age of 18 with my first gf I learnt how to pleasure women in many ways. I had to learn as the goal and satisfaction in sex to me is making her climax. Once I know how to make her cum then me cumming quick isn't such a let down. I'm not big either but longer than average and curved up which helps a lot for my lack of girth. So that's why you're slightly wrong. Yes, lasting a long time is super great for her but it's not just a long fuck women like. Plus, m9st women do like a larger penis. Most will say 7 to 8 inch length if honest. But you can be the best lover without size or stamina. But there's always someone who could plessure her better. All good.

 

If you had asked my wife that question when we first started having sex, she would have laughed and said, "Not even close to the best." Her best was her longest-running fwb in college. Now that we have spent years learning how to please each other, she says I am easily the best. She trained me well.