Girls, is your current Husband/boyfriend your best ever lover. And.......

Not as a favor to him, for her own personal benefit. She has something to gain by staying with him.

 

it's sad that most of us are brainwashed into choosing sex partners based on faulty data. Women are often drawn to 'Bad Boys' that almost always end up as assholes. Men are often drawn to Princesses who almost always turn into bitches.

I was lucky enough to figure this out in my mid 30's and find my wife, who I would not have dated without the wisdom I gained during 20's and early 30's. That is why people should wait until they are at least 30 to look for a life partner and even then they need to be vigilant to avoid making the same mistake over and over. unfortunately women make it easy for men by fucking them without any test or commitment so most men never have to grow up or learn how to treat a woman with respect. they lie to get laid and then bail at the first sign a woman wants more from a relationship than sex. males will often say or do anything to get laid, especially in their 20's and early 30's. we can't help it, we are horny all the time. women need to get better at making sure a guy is a decent person before spreading their legs.

 

That whole "gold digger" "only for personal gain" stuff doesn't pass the sniff test. Why would she still keep fucking him daily? Why would she still tell him she loves 'em? Oh, it's all an act so she can string him along? That makes sense. The only real thing that'd explain your mentality is that you just have a low opinion of women in general.

 

Mindriot, have you not worked out that he is a troll yet. I imagine that he lols everytime you, or others take his posts seriously! I hope he is a troll anyway, if not he is a total nut!

As for the other one, he lost his arguement pages and pages ago. He is the sort that likes to argue, and will never admit when he is wrong. You should not kick a dog when its down, you should allow it to go away and lick its wounds!

 

is he a troll? or is he a nut? Geez, I don't know...

Mindriot, he cracks me up.

Rachel, I know you think your condescending attitude toward Xxaru and myself is cute but you really are just nasty and stuck up.

 

What do you know about people admiting they are wrong? When you are wrong you resort to name calling like a child and disliking peoples posts.

 

Sometimes it feels that way, sometimes it doesn't. It's not like judgmental types like him don't exist. I'm not xxaru, I won't make excuses not to engage someone in a discussion or use faulty reasoning to back up the excuses.

I felt like the post you quoted by me had pretty much dispelled the "lack of passion/love in a cuckold relationship" thing, so. *shrugs*

 

This talking point ("Rachel is wrong") has been bandied about for a while. So much so, I forgot whatever it was she was stated to be wrong about.

Clarification of what that was, if you could?

 

Just go back to page 39! She decided she needed to tell me how I was cocky, bullying and arrogant. I asked her to find one quote to back that up which she didn't seem to have a problem doing for others on this thread. Her response was to do some more name calling, because she could not find what she needed to back herself up. I have no problem with people that stand by there opinion like many have on this thread. I do however have a problem with people that resort to childish name calling when they can not prove their point.

 

The only person on this thread who can tell us if Jacobs girl loves him, or if she is a 'Gold digger' is Jacob himself. He has told us how loving their relationship is, and what a good girl she was. If a pair of trolls come along and suggest otherwise, let them! They have never met him or his girl, how could they know?

It is interesting how we are still talking about Jacob even though his last post was pages ago. Maybe if you ignore the name calling insulting trolls, and they go away, the more interesting members that were posting earlier may return?

 

Possibly. I was mostly using him as an example, since he'd posted openly about it in the thread. And then brought up another example in the post you'd initially replied to. Ah well, this thread seems to be dying down so maybe sometime some new posters will come along with similar experiences.

 

you can love your neighbor, your kids, your parents, you can love chocolate. in the context you are using the word it is meaningless.

 

I get the feeling that even if Jacob's girlfriend herself were to come to these forums and state flat out that she is in love with jacob, the sex with the other guy is just sex, you'd still harp on about her not loving him because she's giving her pussy to someone else and infer that her use of love is much like what you just replied to Rachel.

Rachel is probably right by implying this whole thing is futile. We could have a couple come on here in a cuckolding relationship and state, flat out, that their personal and sexual relationship is passionate, romantic and such. I even gave an example of one such couple earlier. And you'd still try to contradict it. Despite you wondering and speculating why, no answers would suffice for you due to being stuck to your own rigid standards.

 

You are the name caller so does that make you an insulting troll?

 

how can you be 'passionate and romantic' without longing? How can she be busy getting stuffed with 10 inches of cock and feel desire? How can her mouth ache for jacob's cock when it is full of someone else's cock? How can she look at jacob's naked body and feel her pussy get wet?

let's say for the sake of argument I was fucking another woman besides my wife. I could easily do it as my sex drive is much higher than hers. Imagine I had a fuck buddy and she had amazing tits, a vise grip pussy and sucked dick like no tomorrow. Would I really burn for my wife?

your math does not compute. does anything feel better than eating when you're really hungry? When you always have food in front of you how do you ever get hungry? If your mistress/ stud/ fuck buddy/ bull is Prime Rib, how do you get excited if your spouse is meatloaf?

Love, romantic love is a hunger, a burning desire. when you are constantly dulling your appetite you cannot be hungry. If you constantly were grazing on different snack foods how could you appreciate a gourmet meal?

the idea that quantity is more important than quality is just gluttony. wanting to fuck, fuck, fuck, just find someone, hop in the sack, fuck and move on is so shallow, so empty. There are 2 kinds of sex partners; one, the partner is really good, someone you could fuck over and over, the other is bad, that you think afterwards, 'Why did I do that?' When you find someone who rocks your world, why wouldn't you want to just stay put? I love my wife's body, I love the feeling of her pussy, I love the way she sucks my cock. what other woman could offer all that? even if she did it wouldn't be any better than I already have. When I get up on top of my wife and look down on her with total love and affection and she touches me, feeling my back, my chest, my hips and she makes those sounds I am exactly where I want to be. If I needed novelty, variety, excitement my mind would be wrapped around chasing strange pussy and all of a sudden sex with my wife wouldn't seem so cosmic.

go ahead and criticise, flame, whatever you will never, EVER convince me that you can be in an open relationship or have multiple partners and feel the intensity of romantic love.

so, go out tonight to the bar, find some random person to go home with. get that momentary anticipation, wondering what size cock he has or how tight her pussy is, fuck them and then figure out a lie to avoid seeing them again. While you are doing that tonight I'll be watching my wife undress for the 5000th time and marvel at her breasts and her lips and smile and I will tingle with the anticipation that I am going to fuck this beautiful woman that I adore.

 

Funny... Was that when you backed away from your false allegations and lies? I guess backing down and avoiding the topic when you know you’ve been had is what you call “winning” lol.

Interesting too that since I ousted you on your lies, you're too ashamed to even speak my name. Now that's how you know someone got SERIOUSLY 0WNED to the point of embarrassment :2thumbsup:

Since they can’t prove their arguments with facts, calling people trolls is the easy way out for them since it allows them to not have to prove anything. It’s like pleading insanity in a courtroom. It’s then no longer about the facts of the case, but about whether someone is/isn’t sane (or in this case trolling).

The reality is, they can accuse people of being trolls all they want. It still doesn’t change the facts. And facts are the one thing their arguments have at fault.

 

I choose not to engage you because you haven't earned my respect yet. No sense continuing to cry and whine over it. Prove to me you can engage the others who see differently than you in a worthy, honest debate without resorting to calling everyone trolls, and you might earn some respect from me.

 

Yes it is futile, and that is why it would be better to ignore certain posters in the hope that they might get bored, and move their insults to another thread.

Anyone who has had anything interesting to say with regard to what has been discussed on this thread has been insulted by XXarnumber 1 and fx90210 and others.

Do you think people want to be called diseased, wimp, weak, tiny dick.....etc etc? Do you think that other interesting people will want to join this thread with those two still here. Jacob was very elequont and honest about telling us his story, he was then insulted. In fairness, Jacob then kicked the ass of both XXnumber 1 and fx90210! They did not like it, so they have been insulting him ever since, even though he has not been here in weeks!

Ignore them, as I do, and they will seek attention elsewhere. Then we can get back on track!:2thumbsup:

 

Again you talk about people throwing out insults, but won't own up to yours! This thread will never get back on track it is far past that point.

 

Just so you don't forget the score you delusional **t**.

And in the future, if you have something to say to me, then be woman enough to confront me and say it to me directly!