Girls Dont Even Talk To Me At University

You dont make any sense. I did not say I dont talk to too fat girls. I say I'd more enjoy a girl around my kilos. I am also fat but I am 90kg. I am not 120 kg.

 

That's not what you said. You don't see the point of talking to too fat girls because you don't have the same trouble seeing them as a person like you see and talk to a guy. This is the key problem why girls don't want to talk to you and you can't normally talk to them. They (I guess instinctively) detect your motivation behind it, label you as another creep or sexually frustrated dude and will try to avoid you. Nobody can blame them for doing so even if they would all be as conceited as you say they are. I am sure you project that on them though, because they don't treat you like you would hope.

 

I said it is like talking to a male. I am 90 kg and I'd much prefer a girl at my kilos (90 kg) instead of 120 kg. Girls dont talk because they are conceited. I am living in a country where when you say hi to a girl, that girl thinks you try to make a move on her. You see girls are conceited? You see girls are so sure of themselves?

 

You reply too fast. For instance I did not say something opposite than this:

Read with understanding what point I am making. Not just reply to rebute. The problem of why you can't talk to girls is not because they are all conceited, it is (partly) because you perceive them like that and prefer to conclude that is the main cause. The main cause however is between your ears.

If they would show a conceited attitude towards you, why could that be? Be honest. Is it just them?

Another question you need to answer: Why is talking to girls who you find too fat like talking to a guy? And why don't you feel the same when trying to talk normally to a girl who is not so overly fat?

 

They dont talk because when you try to make a conversation with a girl, that girl thinks you try to date herself, and she acts cold. This is the conceited acting. There is not this kinda problem when you talk to a male because same gender.

 

But do all other guys have this problem too, or does it mainly counts for you and guys like you? Sure the girls may think with them too that they might talk because they're interested in dating, but they don't refuse to talk to them. They do to you. It must be something in your approach, communication (could easily be non verbal too), or something else how you come across.

Why aren't you interested in talking to overly fat girls?

 

i believe they prefer gravitationally challenged.

 

Maybe in turkey girls might be way too conceited. Yesterday I was sitting on a bus and seats are small. My arm touched the girl's arm a bit and she said keep away. You just sit next to a girl on bus and seats are small. What the hell am I supposed to do?

 

Don't put all the blame on the girl would be a constructive and progressive start.

 

I cant seem to reach their egos. They are like that when you try to talk to a girl, she thinks inside of her brain that this idiot wants to date me, I should act cold so he will get away from like other boys. They are having the pleasure of being born as females. 10 Boys chase a girl, we boys have caused them girls to be conceited. As a result of it they are conceited. If I was a girl, I would have a great ego like them too.

 

Just go hipster or something. Anything. Get some ass.

 

does this work on other boys, do they stay away...?

 

I think we need to see a picture of you, to get an idea of what we are working with.

 

Maybe you should move to ham.

 

I dont know how to put a photo here. I believe it is forbidden put a facebook links of ours here.

 

where ham might be?

 

you can post your facebook link..

 

hehe

 

My opinion is that trying to give advice to this OP is a waste of time. I mean, he says he wants to know how to talk to girls, but he doesn't really want to talk to those who are overweight. Overweight or not, girls are girls. So some people start saying maybe what the OP really wants is a girlfriend, to which he replies that isn't the case. I don't buy that for a second because, if one wishes to have a female friend, any female is a potential friend regardless of age and body types. One does not need to find them physically attractive in order for a friendship to occur between them. What matters is that the two people get along nicely, and respect and trust each other. It doesn't matter if she is 40kg or 120kg, because friendships are not based on phyiscal appearances.

The whole thing about girls being "conceited" is, in my opinion, just him being sorry for himself and coming up with this very weak and selfish excuse. He must look within himself for anything that he can improve about himself before he starts putting the blame on all the girls out there. I very much doubt that every guy experiences the same phenomenon, so it's more natural to say the problem lies within the OP himself rather than within the girls.

And he keeps refusing to see things this way everytime someone brings up pretty much the same thing I just did, so really, there's no point. He doesn't want to improve his situation, he just wants a female who can satisfy his needs, whatever they are. It's such a one-sided thing.