Girls Dont Even Talk To Me At University

You are giving a personal dimension to a simple activity like chatting. I can see why girls would not enjoy talking to you. It seems like such a burden.
We talked once in HF chatroom, and there were at least 3 other people there. People take interest, and converse, because you come from a different culture and a foreign country, which is usually interesting, and then you interpret it as liking you or not liking you, like you're a really big deal. I suggest you get over yourself, which is something I found very helpful in my own life.
No one really cares about you (or me for that matter), we are just thread-and post makers here.
I also dgaf about your religion or life choices. I am somewhat interested in Turkey, and Turkish language, for numerous reasons, but it has nothing to do with religion.
Your other claims are ridiculous too. If anything, you not being a Muslim is a plus lol.

Also, free Kurdistan.

 

Well maybe them girls in university hang out with older men who are earning money, who have jobs instead of students. Maybe this, I dont know. I talkted to a 40 year old woman in a cafe today and she told me that. Also I know a 22 yearld old girl who hangs out with a 37 yeard old man who is earning money, who has a car. Why me when there are older men who have jobs, money, cars? In turkey I can say that many boys in university are having problems about girls.

 

If you knew Turkish, you would open this thread on a turkish forum and you'd see how quite many boys in university are having problems about girls. Also you can open the thread in english on a turkish forum too. The ones who can speak english can answer it but not everybody speaks English, some speak english. The reason I'd rather post on an english forum than a turkish forum is to improve my english. On turkish forums you'll see how quite a lot of boys find turkish girls conceited. You'll see. Besides, many of those conceited girls in my class can't even speak any english, in lessons which are in english, I see it. They are conceited because boys chase girls very badly. We turkish boys made turkish girls conceited. We caused it. 10 boys chase 1 girl so If I was a girl, I would be conceited too. You go say hi to a girl to make a conversation and that girl doesn't even want to talk to you by thinking that you wish to date her. They are bored of boys chasing them so badly.

 

Just fucked a turkish burnette
and bump

 

Humor is the answer my friend. Since you are studying chemistry, you can start by making awesome chemistry jokes. I will give you a few to get you going:

- Don't trust atoms, they make up everything.

- I asked the guy sitting next to me if he had any Sodium Hypobromite.
He said NaBrO.

- What is the chemical formula for banana?
BaNa2

- I am sorry I don't have any more jokes, I will have more... periodically!

Good luck!

 

Yesterday when I was drunk, I wrote to a girl on my facebook list that I am so lonely. Now I regret it, I was drunk. I am ashamed now. I will change my way when I see her, I am ashamed. I wish I hadn't written it. I was drunk.

 

see what she says, saying anything almost is better than nothing at all ..

 

She doesn't say a thing. It is bad to say something like that, I was drunk. We talked a little bit on facebook and after that, I wrote I am so lonely and she didn't respond. It was stupid to say it.

 

It's all in the approach. People can pretty much smell your desperation (and frustration) through the internet, let alone in person. Even if you just want to talk to a girl for no other reason than to have a friendly chat (which you don't want with fat chicks apparently) they will detect this. So... you have to fix this issue between your ears first. Which is easier said then done. Especially if you don't wanna recognize this issue

 

This person may well be a decent person. I think his attitudes and confusion may reflect his being born and raised in Turkey. Atsiza, there is confusion just about everywhere when it comes to women. It's the way of the world. Just get to a more liberal country and above all-----RELAX ABOUT THIS and try to look at women as people and not merely objects of your desire.

 

Why do you think his attitude would change sooner in 'a more liberal' country when a lot of boys and even a fair amount of men have the same problem and confusion here as well? If he doesn't chance the ladies will shit on him here at least as much. And he would have to settle with a kind of woman he could get there too.

 

Do you see Turkey as a liberal country? Our presedent can arrest anybody he wishes. He puts the people into the jail, whom he doesnt like. He arrested a 14 year old boy because He called him a retard thief. He sees himself as a sultan of octoman empire. His house has 1250 rooms if you don't know it. He's able to change the constitutional laws as he likes.

 

were you drunk?

 

Yes, why?

 

Eh, it honestly doesn't matter about the approach or how you preset yourself. xD

It honestly does all boil down to how attractive you are to the one you are attempting to speak.

Considering how we all perceive beauty differently, a strong approach will do nothing for anyone that does not find you physically attractive.

 

this topic is now closed.

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Why?

 

what's there about my attitue? Are all girls perfect? Why can't I find someone like me?

 

You should just accept that YOU are the problem....and not all those girls, society, culture or your country.
It's you.

 

Just defiled عافية