It is exciting to think about someone going down on you. It is a turn on to see someone going down on you. I cannot come from it though. I have already written a post but I will just do it again and I will once again explain the whole story. I've been humping pillows since I can remember. 2014 I started using a vibrator but although the result was nice, it was not as good as from humping something. From what I have read, it (humping) might affect your sex life in the future so about a year ago I decided not to do it again or to use a vibrator either. I think I didn't do anything for a week and then one day I managed to come by using my fingers (just playing with my clit, moving them in a circle, always the same motion). It was a great feeling to be able to do that and I thought it might help with being licked. Nothing. My boyfriend has tried, another two have tried (open relationship)... nothing. Has anybody had a similar problem? Thanks in advance.